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Lonely Ronin Established Member

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Don't forget trust. Difficult to trust without honesty.

 

well to me, in regards to trust and sex, the only thing thats of consequence is whether or not I feel I can trust her to not cheat.

KungFuJoe Established Member

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sex doesn't at last forever, find an talk with some couples have been married 50 + years.

 

Sex doesn't last forever, but you need it to get anywhere.

 

I look my own situation. Together 13 years, married for 10. Our sex is amazing still after all these years. Still do it on a daily basis. Hell...we JUST did it 3 hours ago (which explains my lapse in posting at that time).

 

We both know it won't last forever. Something could happen to one of us or it could just be plain "getting older". But we have it now and that's one of the main reasons why we are so in love with each other...and we both know that if that day ever comes, we will find a way to make it work.

 

But, if the sex was never good to begin with, we wouldn't have lasted 3 months, much less 13 years.

Woggle Established Member

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I think the problem we are seeing here is way too many people focusing on sex without any regard for the word love. love is what holds relationship together, not sex.

 

You need both and if a woman or man for that matter is never really that hot for their spouse it is a recipe for disaster down the road.

 

I would have no issue if this were my girlfriend but these two are probably incompatible. The bigger issue is having a relationship under false pretenses. I would not pretend to be a Muslim for a woman while sneaking a ham sandwich on my lunch break and I would not pretend to be Amish while sneaking an iPad under the bed. A conservative person and a freaky person are in most cases just not compatible.

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Crusoe Established Member

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well to me, in regards to trust and sex, the only thing thats of consequence is whether or not I feel I can trust her to not cheat.

 

I was talking in regards to what holds a relationship together. Trust is right up their with love, in fact love isn't enough if there isn't also trust, not long term. Without trust there's nothing, you'll never fully commit without trust, be it in yourself or your partner. So why give reason not to trust?

Lonely Ronin Established Member

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A conservative person and a freaky person are in most cases just not compatible.

 

I'd agree with that, but that's not the problem here. if you read the quote she made it seems more than anything else he is butt hurt because she did something with another guy hasn't done it with him. maybe she will respond later with more details, but from what I've seen he didn't even ask why she didn't all these the only cares about is that she didn't. to me, he's doing your stereotypical insecure teenage boy butt hurt crap.

TaraMaiden Established Member

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Relationship = porcelain dish.

Love = contents of same.

Bunsen burner = Passion.

 

Trust ---------------)

Communication-----)Tripod supporting Relationship (containing Love)

Respect-------------)

 

If one of the three legs of the tripod is bent, damaged or broken - the other two are incapable of supporting the relationship on their own, no matter how sound.

Crusoe Established Member

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Relationship = porcelain dish.

Love = contents of same.

Bunsen burner = Passion.

 

Trust ---------------)

Communication-----)Tripod supporting Relationship (containing Love)

Respect-------------)

 

If one of the three legs of the tripod is bent, damaged or broken - the other two are incapable of supporting the relationship on their own, no matter how sound.

 

Exactly, and what's the key to good trust, communication and respect? What can no three exist without?

TaraMaiden Established Member

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if you say 'love' you're wrong.

Crusoe Established Member

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if you say 'love' you're wrong.

 

Could also ask, the lack of what, breeds distrust, insecurity, doubt, silence and disrespect?

MrCastle Established Member

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Are we getting pictures?

 

Anyone post "Tits or GTFO" yet?

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TaraMaiden Established Member

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@Crusoe, You don't have to love your boss to have Trust Communication and Respect, do you?

You don't have to love your class pupils to have Trust, Communication and Respect.

 

 

The 'dish' (Relationship) can contain whatever you want it to contain.

In this case, it contains love, because of the people involved.

It could just as well contain 'career' 'religion' 'Fostering'.....

Crusoe Established Member

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@Crusoe, You don't have to love your boss to have Trust Communication and Respect, do you?

You don't have to love your class pupils to have Trust, Communication and Respect.

 

 

The 'dish' (Relationship) can contain whatever you want it to contain.

In this case, it contains love, because of the people involved.

It could just as well contain 'career' 'religion' 'Fostering'.....

 

I know......

phineas Established Member

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I think the problem we are seeing here is way too many people focusing on sex without any regard for the word love. love is what holds relationship together, not sex.

 

Try being trapped in a sexless marriage with 16yrs worth of double child support staring you in the face while still in your sexual prime then tell us sex doesn't hold a relationship together.

KungFuJoe Established Member

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Are we getting pictures?

 

Anyone post "Tits or GTFO" yet?

 

Honestly, I think this is a fake thread.

 

I mean, what are the odds that op took some nude photos with an ex and that these photos ended up in a magazine spread that some coworkers gave as a gift to the op's new boyfriend?

 

I mean, just the part about some glamour magazine being a gift is hard to believe. Who gives that as a gift? I would have been like, "uh...thanks guys...but did you at least give me some tissue to go with it?"

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phineas Established Member

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sex doesn't last forever, find an talk with some couples have been married 50 + years.

 

50 yrs?

Yeah, if they are still together they are pushing 70 for christ-sakes.

Good cal on that no sex thing. :rolleyes:

 

Not a whole lot last even 10yrs in today's society.

Out of all my friends who married 10+ yrs ago only 1 is still married.

 

THEY DO NOT HAVE SEX ANY MORE.

 

Well, maybe on his birthday.

 

However, most of my friends are on their 2nd marriage.

Dumb-asses.

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truth_seeker Established Member

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I've heard from married guys that after 6-12 months the lust and desire for sex from the wife goes away fast. It's like they put a pad lock on their vagina and throw away the key.

KungFuJoe Established Member

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I've heard from married guys that after 6-12 months the lust and desire for sex from the wife goes away fast. It's like they put a pad lock on their vagina and throw away the key.

 

You're speaking to the wrong married guys.

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MrNate 2.0 Established Member

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Very disappointed.

 

 

Going on 20 pages with not so much as a nip slip.

twosadthings Established Member

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dear book lady,

 

Have you gotten anything new out of these 19 pages that you didn't get when you posted the same story on another site last year?

 

Shame on you whoever you are.

 

Twosadthings

phineas Established Member

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dear book lady,

 

Have you gotten anything new out of these 19 pages that you didn't get when you posted the same story on another site last year?

 

Shame on you whoever you are.

 

Twosadthings

 

hahaha!

I thought this sounded familiar.

But i was thinking more in terms of a women doing crazy stuff with ex's but not the guy their currently with.

Not the pictures in the book part.

 

Successful (word that shall not be spoken) is successful?

Taramere Established Member

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dear book lady,

 

Have you gotten anything new out of these 19 pages that you didn't get when you posted the same story on another site last year?

 

Shame on you whoever you are.

 

Twosadthings

 

Have we been trolled again? I did wonder if it was a guy trolling. Mainly because "she" didn't seem to be mounting much of a defence on her own behalf and was quite happy to be perceived as the "racy with my no-good ex, but not prepared to go that extra mile for the guy who really loves me" girl.

 

I wonder how much internet misogyny is caused by men posing as female posters.

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TaraMaiden Established Member

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dear book lady,

 

Have you gotten anything new out of these 19 pages that you didn't get when you posted the same story on another site last year?

 

Shame on you whoever you are.

 

Twosadthings

 

Ahaaaaah.......

 

We've been well and truly played then.....:rolleyes:

animalover Established Member

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Have we been trolled again? I did wonder if it was a guy trolling. Mainly because "she" didn't seem to be mounting much of a defence on her own behalf and was quite happy to be perceived as the "racy with my no-good ex, but not prepared to go that extra mile for the guy who really loves me" girl.

 

I wonder how much internet misogyny is caused by men posing as female posters.

 

Is funny you speak about misogyny when you are actually accusing men to be the troll without having any proof... I guess being a men hater can't be hiden very good neither!

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tbf Established Member

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Have we been trolled again? I did wonder if it was a guy trolling. Mainly because "she" didn't seem to be mounting much of a defence on her own behalf and was quite happy to be perceived as the "racy with my no-good ex, but not prepared to go that extra mile for the guy who really loves me" girl.

 

I wonder how much internet misogyny is caused by men posing as female posters.

I also wondered since the story rolled out textbook.
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Samilia Established Member

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I've heard from married guys that after 6-12 months the lust and desire for sex from the wife goes away fast. It's like they put a pad lock on their vagina and throw away the key.

 

The guy probably has the key :p he doesn't know how to use it..

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