lovepugs86 Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 It's been 4 months since my ex broke up with me and 2 weeks since we had our final closure... I feel like I will never fully get past all this. Every night I've been having dreams about him; last night I had 3! I broke down crying last night because I miss everything we had and I still hope he will call me and fix everything.. I'm trying to stay busy and do new things, but I've just been feeling emotionally flat or sad.. never happy... when will this go away
Sari Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 It's been 4 months since my ex broke up with me and 2 weeks since we had our final closure... I feel like I will never fully get past all this. Every night I've been having dreams about him; last night I had 3! I broke down crying last night because I miss everything we had and I still hope he will call me and fix everything.. I'm trying to stay busy and do new things, but I've just been feeling emotionally flat or sad.. never happy... when will this go away I know how you must be feeling. I am also completely heartbroken. Unfortunately there is no cure apart from time, and looking after yourself. By this I mean early nights, no drink/drug abuse, regular exercise, therapy if you think you need it (I'm going to therapy and it is really helpful for getting your head round what's happened/venting). Also staying busy and doing new things is great, I know your heart won't be in it yet but one day things will seem fun again. Also, stay NC! It's the only way to heal. It sounds like you're doing the right things. Well done! Try to be proud of yourself for getting out of the house and carrying on with your life. It's so hard to do, not everyone can be so strong. Big hugs x
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