LK30 Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Hi all. I recently wrote about a girl I work with whom I grew quite close to despite her being quite aloof and on a night out we ended up kissing, but unfortunately she has just come out of a relationship so I felt a bit bad as she was probably a bit vulnerable. I honestly didn't see her as a 'conquest' and don't regret what happened because I could see myself with her in the future. Nothing has really happened since but I really enjoyed the compliments from her, with one being that I'm marriage material. In fact, I seem to get that from most girls in my office. I kind of interpret it as 'not the best option, but you're a safe bet!). I don't know why it always happens but I felt myself developing feelings for her altho I've never told her. I'm trying to move on, and funnily enough I have a job interview tomorrow which would see me working in a different town completely. It's only really changed since the kiss, and she did say some sweet things but I think it was the drink talking. There was a work night out last night, but I didn't go, and I wouldn't tell my mates but I didn't want to go as I just didn't want to see this girl flirting with other blokes or worse. I know it's strange and sad as I shouldn't be like this, and I kind of feel like I'm in a female's position as I'm having the emotion and not just the physical feelings as most blokes would be like 'yeah just get a notch on the bed.' I've barely spoken to her in recent weeks, and I do think I'm good at hiding my feelings. Right now, I think it's best I just try to let my feelings drift away because she's come out of a long r'ship and think she just wants to go out partying whereas I've been single for 2 years and would like to meet someone nice. I've even noticed she's on a dating site and I feel a bit jealous :-(
Mtlgrrl Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 I'm not sure what's your question. All I can say is that if you know she's not looking for anything "serious" and you are, best leave it like that. :/
Author LK30 Posted January 27, 2013 Author Posted January 27, 2013 Sorry, yes you're right I've not really asked a question here! I suppose I just can't understand (or know howto stop) getting feelings for girls and feeling a bit jealous about a girl meeting other men yet I'm not even with her!
Author LK30 Posted March 8, 2013 Author Posted March 8, 2013 Funnily enough she went out with some girls from work last weekend and texted me to encourage me to join them as they missed me. She was sending flirty texts, and even admitted she was flirting inappropriately. Later that night she texted me again and said she had just got home and had the place to herself. She seemed to be hinting but I didn't go round. It sounds weird and not what most blokes would say as they'd jump at the chance, but I didn't want to be her regret. In some ways I wish I would stop thinking and start doing!! We haven't mentioned it since and I do wonder if she's thought about any of those texts, but earlier this week I e-mailed her as I had seen a new film advertised starring an actor I remember at Xmas she told me she fancied. I wrote on the e-mail 'take me to see this!' She replied saying 'sounds good, we can get a few of us from work to go.' I think she missed the point!!!
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