JuneJulySeptember Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Happy, non-bitter men: -Lonely Ronin, Kung Fu Joe, Wholigan -Have all had attractive women approach them throughout their lives -Have turned down multiple women, some of whom were attractive Frustrated, unhappy (with women situation), possibly bitter men -won't name names, but you know who -have rarely if ever been approached in their lives -if they have been approached, never were those women attractive to them Simple as that! LS really gives us everything we need to figure out the way of the world. 1
fortyninethousand322 Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Frustrated, unhappy (with women situation), possibly bitter men -won't name names, but you know who -have rarely if ever been approached in their lives -if they have been approached, never were those women attractive to them Simple as that! LS really gives us everything we need to figure out the way of the world. Or, it's also possible that they didn't realize that these women were approaching them or interested in them. Some guys are really bad at reading signals.
KungFuJoe Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Happy, non-bitter men: -Lonely Ronin, Kung Fu Joe, Wholigan -Have all had attractive women approach them throughout their lives -Have turned down multiple women, some of whom were attractive Frustrated, unhappy (with women situation), possibly bitter men -won't name names, but you know who -have rarely if ever been approached in their lives -if they have been approached, never were those women attractive to them Simple as that! LS really gives us everything we need to figure out the way of the world. I didn't even kiss a girl til AFTER I graduated high school. Trust me, I went through a significant part of my life feeling unattractive. I just didn't really let it bother me. And TheWholigan just recently starting experiencing success. But the success didn't make him into a "positive" person...it was the other way around. 1
KungFuJoe Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Or, it's also possible that they didn't realize that these women were approaching them or interested in them. Some guys are really bad at reading signals. THIS. I was horrible at reading signals. Absolutely horrible. Once I learned to recognize them, it got a lot easier. These days, I can spot the difference between "friendly" and "attracted" a mile away.
ThaWholigan Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 My optimism and happiness preceded my success. Remember that..... 3
KungFuJoe Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 My optimism and happiness preceded my success. Remember that..... Same here. It's a big problem for the guys on LS. They think they need to find someone to be happy. We tell them they need to be happy first. They say we are wrong. But which one of us is doing it right? 2
Author JuneJulySeptember Posted January 27, 2013 Author Posted January 27, 2013 My optimism and happiness preceded my success. Remember that..... 1) That has nothing to do with being approached by women. You really think us guys go out in the world 365 days a year for 30 years wearing a miserable scowl on our face? Lol. My nickname in college was 'Smiley'. 2) Our failures preceded out pessimism.
fortyninethousand322 Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Same here. It's a big problem for the guys on LS. They think they need to find someone to be happy. We tell them they need to be happy first. They say we are wrong. But which one of us is doing it right? I never said that. I have no opinion either way. Obviously being happy helps, but no one wants a guy who stands around with a big goofy smile on his face all the time looking like a putz. The thing is though, not everyone can be happy.
KungFuJoe Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 I never said that. I have no opinion either way. Obviously being happy helps, but no one wants a guy who stands around with a big goofy smile on his face all the time looking like a putz. The thing is though, not everyone can be happy. Wasn't really referring to you in my last post...
Author JuneJulySeptember Posted January 27, 2013 Author Posted January 27, 2013 Or, it's also possible that they didn't realize that these women were approaching them or interested in them. Some guys are really bad at reading signals. Rule #1: Never try to read a woman's signals. Just approach either way. Rule #2: Do not talk about Fight Club.
fortyninethousand322 Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Rule #1: Never try to read a woman's signals. Just approach either way. I'm not a kamikaze pilot. I want reassurance that there's at least some chance of success. Otherwise, it's a no-go. 1
Lonely Ronin Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Rule #1: Never try to read a woman's signals. Just approach either way. I think i see the source of your problems....... 3
ThaWholigan Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 1) That has nothing to do with being approached by women. You really think us guys go out in the world 365 days a year for 30 years wearing a miserable scowl on our face? Lol. My nickname in college was 'Smiley'. 2) Our failures preceded out pessimism. Your failures aren't supposed to do that, you know. There has to be a balance. Sure, I'm not happy-go-lucky positive all the time, even though it may seem like that from the way I post. But I accept my negatives as well as my positives, and keep a balance - an even keel. You guys problem is that you allow your "pessimism" to take over - and you falsely believe that this doesn't somehow manifest. Even if you put a smile on your face, it WILL manifest - trust me on that one.
Lonely Ronin Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Happy, non-bitter men: -Lonely Ronin, Kung Fu Joe, Wholigan -Have all had attractive women approach them throughout their lives -Have turned down multiple women, some of whom were attractive I'm successful because I'm an onion. Though i should mention I'm not a cold approacher. If i talk to a woman a reason to existed. My mind goes blank in cold approach scenarios. 1
TaraMaiden Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 THIS. I was horrible at reading signals. Absolutely horrible. Once I learned to recognize them, it got a lot easier. These days, I can spot the difference between "friendly" and "attracted" a mile away. Oh yeah? Really?? YOU THINK - ?!!? Well I might as well ditch this dress, for all the good it's doing.....!
KungFuJoe Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Oh yeah? Really?? YOU THINK - ?!!? Well I might as well ditch this dress, for all the good it's doing.....! Sorry...perhaps all my drinking last night has clouded my brain, but I don't get what you're saying.
Author JuneJulySeptember Posted January 27, 2013 Author Posted January 27, 2013 I think i see the source of your problems....... Oh god, you're right! You mean 20 years of post-puberty, waiting for signals, taking them, and then getting rejected anyway. That was the right way to do it after all? Dude. If I only gave you some of the signals women have given me over the years only to reject me after. It would throw off the balance of everything you think about women. As the old show went, "Homie don't plat that anymore." Your failures aren't supposed to do that, you know. There has to be a balance. Sure, I'm not happy-go-lucky positive all the time, even though it may seem like that from the way I post. But I accept my negatives as well as my positives, and keep a balance - an even keel. You guys problem is that you allow your "pessimism" to take over - and you falsely believe that this doesn't somehow manifest. Even if you put a smile on your face, it WILL manifest - trust me on that one. I guarantee it doesn't manifest in terms of getting approached. Approached is based on looks. 1
Lonely Ronin Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Oh yeah? Really?? YOU THINK - ?!!? Well I might as well ditch this dress, for all the good it's doing.....! lol learning to read signals is the #1 key as far as I'm concerned, and that is one thing I'm an expert at. 1
TaraMaiden Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 I'm, pulling your leg. You implied you can spot a friendly from a fresh, and I'm "implying" you're not that good at it, because you missed my signals. It was just a joke. Forget it. Don't worry. I'll go now. No, really, I can catch the bus. Honest. It's not far....... 1
Lonely Ronin Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Oh god, you're right! You mean 20 years of post-puberty, waiting for signals, taking them, and then getting rejected anyway. That was the right way to do it after all? Dude. If I only gave you some of the signals women have given me over the years only to reject me after. It would throw off the balance of everything you think about women. As the old show went, "Homie don't plat that anymore." without seeing the women in question, saying it didn't work doesn't really mean much.
xxoo Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Hmmm....seems like none of the OP's examples agree it is so simple. How ironic.
ThaWholigan Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Oh god, you're right! You mean 20 years of post-puberty, waiting for signals, taking them, and then getting rejected anyway. That was the right way to do it after all? Dude. If I only gave you some of the signals women have given me over the years only to reject me after. It would throw off the balance of everything you think about women. As the old show went, "Homie don't plat that anymore." I guarantee it doesn't manifest in terms of getting approached. Approached is based on looks. Keep believing that. The more you do, the more you will have problems.
KungFuJoe Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Perhaps I overstated my abilities. I'm, pulling your leg. You implied you can spot a friendly from a fresh, and I'm "implying" you're not that good at it, because you missed my signals. It was just a joke. Forget it. Don't worry. I'll go now. No, really, I can catch the bus. Honest. It's not far.......
Author JuneJulySeptember Posted January 27, 2013 Author Posted January 27, 2013 without seeing the women in question, saying it didn't work doesn't really mean much. So. You've come around 360 and you agree with me. It's all about looks and league and no woman out of my league could be giving me signals.
Lonely Ronin Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 So. You've come around 360 and you agree with me. It's all about looks and league and no woman out of my league could be giving me signals. No, that's not what i said. With out knowing the woman in question, i can't tell if you got mixed signals or not. she could have been a bitch, a bar babe that requires you to be perfect as soon as you open your mouth, or she could have been directing her signals at the guy behind you.
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