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Here's how the deserted island with 10 men and 10 women would work out. (heterosexual only)

 

All 10 women would have sex.

Only 8 of the men would have sex.

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Here's how the deserted island with 10 men and 10 women would work out. (heterosexual only)

 

All 10 women would have sex.

Only 8 of the men would have sex.

 

Yes. Most likely.

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This is a more legitimate argument, although I'm not sure if it bears any weight. I don't know how many women out there are being exclusive with a man who is not being exclusive

 

Well you will find studies that vary. 10% of men and 5% of women is a more than fair estimate IMO.

 

This is a radically different argument though than the constant BS you guys talk about in that guys have a lot fewer options than women do. Overall, the average numbers come out the same

 

I've always maintained that some men have fewer options than other people (men and women). For example, the average woman has more options than I do (or SD does). That doesn't mean though, that the average woman has more options that the average man.

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Which really means nothing because men and women don't value sex the same way at all

If that was the case, none of the women would have sex ;)

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That's not true at all

 

 

Men have a much higher sex drive and they're willing to lower their standards by a huge amount to get it

 

 

Women have a much lower sex drive and they can go much longer periods of time without sex so they're not willing to lower their standards

But women still want and enjoy sex.

 

I'm not understanding why you said that it doesn't matter when all women end up having sex with 2 of the men go without it.

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That's not true at all

 

 

Men have a much higher sex drive and they're willing to lower their standards by a huge amount to get it

 

 

Women have a much lower sex drive and they can go much longer periods of time without sex so they're not willing to lower their standards

It isn't about sex drives - or lowering standards.

 

A male has sex - he can get some one pregnant.

A women has sex - she can get pregnant

 

Now please tell me who has the bigger risk?

 

Don't you think that fact alone plays a role in womens decision to not have as much sex? Or most women's mindset from the get go?

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That's not true at all

 

 

Men have a much higher sex drive and they're willing to lower their standards by a huge amount to get it

 

 

Women have a much lower sex drive and they can go much longer periods of time without sex so they're not willing to lower their standards

Women do not have lower sex drives. That is a myth. Women might not have testosterone-driven lust like we do, but they get just as horny as we do.

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If we're talking about a desert island, I don't think normal rules apply for sex drives...

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Here's how the deserted island with 10 men and 10 women would work out. (heterosexual only)

 

All 10 women would have sex.

Only 8 of the men would have sex.

 

I guess those 10 women had pretty good reasons for not choosing to have sex with those 2 guys, then.

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SmileFace is starting my sex drive.

 

Vroom!

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I guess those 10 women had pretty good reasons for not choosing to have sex with those 2 guys, then.

 

Yes they would. Because those men were in the bottom quintile of social status. That's reason enough.

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I love how the thread is titled "why you can't compare" and then immediately, it's all about comparing.

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That's kinda what I mean. Their lack of testosterone gives them a far different viewpoint on sex

Seen. Its not a lower sex drive though.

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No offense to anyone with what I'm about to say, but you guys who think women have lower sex drives...you just aren't making any women horny.

 

Trust me when I say women are just as horny, if not hornier than men.

 

Hell...there's even a thread in the sex forum called "horny as hell" and guess who created it....

 

A female!

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No offense to anyone with what I'm about to say, but you guys who think women have lower sex drives...you just aren't making any women horny.

 

Trust me when I say women are just as horny, if not hornier than men.

 

Hell...there's even a thread in the sex forum called "horny as hell" and guess who created it....

 

A female!

 

I'm willing to bet 99% of women have a higher sex drive than I do.

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SmileFace is starting my sex drive.

 

Vroom!

I don't take cards.

Cash only...lol

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I don't take cards.

Cash only...lol

Girl, I'm totally interpreting that in the wrong way.

 

Are checks OK?

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No offense to anyone with what I'm about to say, but you guys who think women have lower sex drives...you just aren't making any women horny.

 

Trust me when I say women are just as horny, if not hornier than men.

 

Hell...there's even a thread in the sex forum called "horny as hell" and guess who created it....

 

A female!

 

Women's sex drives always seem very "binary" to me. They are either in a 1 or 0 state. They are either on or off. But when they are on LOOK OUT!

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I'm probably not explaining it properly

 

 

What I mean is that women don't have the same biological need/desire/lust to have sex as men do because of the difference in testosterone

 

 

Women can go very long periods of time without sex and be fine...guys go crazy when they go a certain period of time with no sex

 

Wrong wrong wrong SO FREAKIN WRONG

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Girl, I'm totally interpreting that in the wrong way.

 

Are checks OK?

:lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao:

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Girl, I'm totally interpreting that in the wrong way.

 

Are checks OK?

Checks?..........

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Checks?..........

:lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao:

 

OMG!

 

You win this round.

 

Seriously, you look killer in your picture.

 

And I mean that in a sexy and dangerous way. (Your look, not how I'm saying it :p )

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:lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao:

 

OMG!

 

You win this round.

 

Seriously, you look killer in your picture.

 

And I mean that in a sexy and dangerous way. (Your look, not how I'm saying it :p )

Aww, thanks.:)

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I'm really not buying that there are plenty of women who can't get dates.

 

From reading this forum, it seems the main cause of women not being asked out, is that there are no age appropriate single men where she lives.

 

Yup, certainly based on what I've read on this forum, that does seem to be a common complaint.

 

(But I'm sure you're not confusing this forum with a representative population sample, of course.)

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Yup, certainly based on what I've read on this forum, that does seem to be a common complaint.

 

(But I'm sure you're not confusing this forum with a representative population sample, of course.)

As this forum is the only source of information I get about the struggles of women, I have no choice but to treat it as a sample.

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