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I dont see how people think its always easy to fix a problem why women arent attracted to you

 

Mabye most just arent physcially attracted to some of and wouldnt let us get our foot in the door

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It doesn't guarantee success, but at least you won't be a whiny bitch about it on the internet :laugh:.

 

And if you were fine how you were, and you were happy with how fine you were, you wouldn't have as much trouble finding someone who was also fine with how you were.

 

 

At least you'd be original. People whining about how others are whining are just copy cats.

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Seriously...this is the stance I'm just going to take from now on whenever anyone on LS talks about how it's unfair to be a man and how much easier it is for women:

 

I'm just a studly god of masculinity that defies all logic and norms.

 

I kinda like that. I guess if I can't help anyone on LS I'll just help myself.

 

That should be your sig

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I dont see how people think its always easy to fix a problem why women arent attracted to you

 

Mabye most just arent physcially attracted to some of and wouldnt let us get our foot in the door

Yes, keep making excuses :).

 

At least you'd be original. People whining about how others are whining are just copy cats.

 

To an extent yes - the difference being that I am actually trying to help and they aren't listening. To their OWN detriment, not mine.

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Yes, keep making excuses :).

 

 

 

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Reality not excuses,ive seen my good looking friend approach women drunk and obnoxious as hell and put down women and still get them to go home with him

 

Ive seen women we know call him arrogant a jerk etc and those same women call me a gnetleman very good guy etc yet hes the one they sleep with and try to go out with

 

Looks is a huge part of all this lets not kid ourselves

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Reality not excuses,ive seen my good looking friend approach women drunk and obnoxious as hell and put down women and still get them to go home with him

 

Ive seen women we know call him arrogant a jerk etc and those same women call me a gnetleman very good guy etc yet hes the one they sleep with and try to go out with

 

Looks is a huge part of all this lets not kid ourselves

Why don't you try something different then? Do anything, something.....

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Why don't you try something different then? Do anything, something.....

 

like what?

 

get a new face?

 

When youve never had women show any interest after 32 years and pick everyone aorund you except you then its time to admit women arent attracted to you and im not willing to find the 1 out of a few hundred that might tolerate me to let me get one date if i put in enough work and get rejected a few hundred times first

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like what?

 

get a new face?

 

When youve never had women show any interest after 32 years and pick everyone aorund you except you then its time to admit women arent attracted to you and im not willing to find the 1 out of a few hundred that might tolerate me to let me get one date if i put in enough work and get rejected a few hundred times first

Well if you aren't willing to find that "1 out of few hundred" then you shouldn't really complaining then.

 

If I knew there was a 1 in a 1000 women, I'd get approaching. I'd vent every now and then. But I wouldn't give up and whine, then say that I'm "not willing".

 

What exactly are you "willing" to do then? What do you think you need to do? What do you have now that you can make use of? You need to ask yourself these kinds of questions.

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like what?

 

get a new face?

 

They made a movie about that once. Nicholas Cage and John Travolta. Really weird movie.

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Well if you aren't willing to find that "1 out of few hundred" then you shouldn't really complaining then.

 

If I knew there was a 1 in a 1000 women, I'd get approaching. I'd vent every now and then. But I wouldn't give up and whine, then say that I'm "not willing".

 

What exactly are you "willing" to do then? What do you think you need to do? What do you have now that you can make use of? You need to ask yourself these kinds of questions.

 

Ive pretty much given up i dont approach anymore..I use this place to vent but ive come to the conclusion its not gonna ever happen for myself more then likely unless i get extremely lucky where a women shows interest in me first

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They made a movie about that once. Nicholas Cage and John Travolta. Really weird movie.

John Travolta does a magnificent Nicholas Cage impression in that movie :laugh:

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Ive pretty much given up i dont approach anymore..I use this place to vent but ive come to the conclusion its not gonna ever happen for myself more then likely unless i get extremely lucky where a women shows interest in me first

So basically you've given up and all you do is vent?

 

OK.....

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So basically you've given up and all you do is vent?

 

OK.....

 

Yeah its kind of therapuetic in a way to get out all of the hurt ive had from not being attractive to women

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Ive pretty much given up i dont approach anymore..I use this place to vent but ive come to the conclusion its not gonna ever happen for myself more then likely unless i get extremely lucky where a women shows interest in me first

 

It definitely won't if you don't do anything.

 

You can vent, and whine and still approach.

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Yeah its kind of therapuetic in a way to get out all of the hurt ive had from not being attractive to women

Yeah, but you know, that isn't women's fault, right?

 

You could probably find what you are looking for - but like you said, you've given up. There are probably dudes uglier than you who do pretty well with women, in fact I guarantee it.

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Yeah, but you know, that isn't women's fault, right?

 

You could probably find what you are looking for - but like you said, you've given up. There are probably dudes uglier than you who do pretty well with women, in fact I guarantee it.

 

I never said it was womens fault it my genetics fault and my parents but sometiems when were hurt we lash out and say things we dont mean

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I never said it was womens fault it my genetics fault and my parents but sometiems when were hurt we lash out and say things we dont mean

I understand that, really :).

 

However, what I disagree is that it's all down to genetics and parents. We absolutely can affect our own luck, we just have to believe we can. You're problem is you don't believe.

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I never said it was womens fault it my genetics fault and my parents but sometiems when were hurt we lash out and say things we dont mean

 

Lashing out at the people you want to like you, is the last thing you wan to be doing.

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Lashing out at the people you want to like you, is the last thing you wan to be doing.

 

I lash out on here believe me if you ask any women i know and theyll tell you what a good person iam it just hasnt helped me romantically at all

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I lash out on here believe me if you ask any women i know and theyll tell you what a good person iam it just hasnt helped me romantically at all

 

Yes, but if you do it here, you are most likely doing it irl as well. maybe not to the extent you do here, or as obviously, but an off comment here or there. and some times that's all it takes.

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Yes, but if you do it here, you are most likely doing it irl as well. maybe not to the extent you do here, or as obviously, but an off comment here or there. and some times that's all it takes.

 

No not at all im a pretty laid back easy going person in public

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No not at all im a pretty laid back easy going person in public

 

lets put it this way i bet a pay check you do do it a little and just don't realize it.

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No not at all im a pretty laid back easy going person in public

 

You may not realize it, but you probably emit a certain negative vibe.

 

You might think no one sees it and you only "turn it on" when you're on LS but it's very very hard to hide ones true feelings.

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lets put it this way i bet a pay check you do do it a little and just don't realize it.

 

Nope not even a little..

 

Im a little shy and quiet at times and i dont approach women because i dont think they are attracted to me at all and sometimes get nervous and quiet around women i dont know and im attracted to but as far as being negative or lashign out at women you couldnt be more wrong really..

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You may not realize it, but you probably emit a certain negative vibe.

 

You might think no one sees it and you only "turn it on" when you're on LS but it's very very hard to hide ones true feelings.

 

What true feelings? its not like im on here saying women suck im admitting they arent attracted to me..Im 32 and never been with a women im sorry thats gonna make anyone pessismitc and sad at times at their dating prospects or lack of..

 

But i actually like women especially my friends wives and girlfriends who think im a great guy..

 

As far as single women i dont even approach them

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