irc333 Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Well, I am "getting out" there. These days from behind the computer screen. My male friend invited me out to go dancing with him a few other friends, a small mix of male and female. Conveniently enough, 3 men, 3 women. LOL. Anyhow, one of the women brought this lady with her....and she was new in town. ONly here a couple of months, we get to talking for a bit...and as the evening ended., we exchanged #'s. (gave her my card). She seemed a bit reserved and nice, kind of my type....I saw her on FB, and she had a great amount of photos of herself posing 'sexy', but wasn't revealing anything, but she does have nice curves, but the expressions on her face was "sexy". And of course, tons of guys hootin' and hollerin' in her comments section. She was Hispanic, so a lot of it was in Spanish. LOL But, I am seeing a lot of this with women's profiles these days, acting "sexy" and I was wondering if this means I have competition or not, and my chances are slim? Does this mean they're a little toointo themselves?
polo girl Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 most girls and women i know do that. they think it looks sexy and they think it looks appealing. some are conceited, others are just insecure. they go with the norm. tell her that she looks fantastic. flatter her and make her feel like the sexy woman she is trying to be. can't believe i just said that!
Author irc333 Posted January 27, 2013 Author Posted January 27, 2013 most girls and women i know do that. they think it looks sexy and they think it looks appealing. some are conceited, others are just insecure. they go with the norm. tell her that she looks fantastic. flatter her and make her feel like the sexy woman she is trying to be. can't believe i just said that! Then I'd sound like every man that's ever commented on her FB page. LOL But I do wonder if it's par for the course for ANY woman to show their sexiness from time to time.
carhill Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 How can you tell someone's a little too into themselves When you don't register as a significant presence in their space, presuming their behavior indicates you're desired in their space. I can usually tell by a dearth of questions and remembered tidbits of personal information. Their world is small and they fill it completely but it is nice to have a few satellites orbiting. Regarding her 'sexy' photos, IMO, go with the real. If you find her 'sexy', ask her out on a date. That's where you find out about the 'small world' stuff being present or not. All that FB stuff is electrons. Ignore it. 1
xxoo Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Then I'd sound like every man that's ever commented on her FB page. LOL But I do wonder if it's par for the course for ANY woman to show their sexiness from time to time. Don't comment on her page. Ask her out, and tell her in person. Don't worry about the other guys. Obviously she isn't interested in them.
candie13 Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 xxoo is right. At best, like one of the pics that is not the sexiest. And for sure, follow up IRL.
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