MarcoInaros Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Tonight I walked past a few "clubs" in my neighborhood. I have never gone inside of one. There are lines of people, several very attractive women who go to those things. The women are usually dressed very well, while the guys run the gamut in terms of fashion. I think clubbing is intriguing and would go myself if I had some friends to go with. No way I would go there by myself. My intention to go there would probably so I could be around all those girls, or even dance with some if I had the courage after a few drinks. But there would be a lot of competition from all the other guys there of course. But what is the point of if all? Do you really have a chance to meet girls at those places? Is it a fun way to spend the night? What are your clubbing experiences?
robaday Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Ive been clubbing all my life, in several different countries! It depends on genre of music as well as how the club portrays itself - upscale, or more indie, classy or a basement sweat box..... Ive found indie clubs easier to meet women, probably because I find indie music more down to earth and have shared interests with the other people who go. But dance clubs are awesome too, you just have to choose the right one. In my experience the classier venues (Im thinking the Ivy) are harder to talk to people in, whereas the more down to earth clubs are much much easier. Bizarrely gay clubs are actually great for meeting women (Im straight)......not sure how ethical that is to go to gay clubs to pick up women! but it seems to work Most of all you gotta have fun, embrace the music, embrace the atmosphere, if you walk into a top club(say in Ibiza) then you will be blown away by the sound and how euphoric it is..thats my two cents 1
Aisling89 Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 It'll be fun if you like loud music, dancing and drinking. Your best off to go there just to have fun and whatever happens so be it. Yeah you do have a chance of meeting someone there. I met my boyfriend of nearly two years in one, granted before him there had been many guys who came onto me that got shot down straight away cause you could tell that they were only after one thing. If you do go clubbing for a relationship the best advice I can give you is to have patience and try keep your hands above the waist, for me that's why my boyfriend got my number that night. If your going to just get laid, have fun and don't expect her to look as nice as she did the night before 1
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