Cam116 Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 And it went exactly how I expected it to go. We ate. We drank. We smiled. We laughed. He seemed a little teary eyed when we first met up, but I kept a very lighthearted tone and cracked some joked to ease the tension. We sat down at the table, and chit chatted away while eating food and drinking for two hours. We just talked about everything that has gone on in our lives over the past month. I also found out, through a few of his comments, that he's been checking out my facebook from time to time. Which, made me feel good for some reason. Anyhoo, we walked out to the parking lot together, and hugged goodbye. He said he had a really great time, and was surprised that this meeting didn't end up in a fight about the relationship. I had told him earlier in the week that I had no intention bringing up the relationship during this meet up. I just wanted us to catch up, and see how comfortable we were with one another. Needless to say, this whole meeting went on as if nothing had happened between us. It was so relaxed and fun. He was legitimately surprised at how well I was able to keep myself, and I made damn sure that I kept a very fun, lighthearted attitude throughout the whole thing. So we hugged goodbye, and he said we'll be in touch soon, we'll do this again soon. And we parted ways. Overall, like I said, it went exactly how I imagined, and I could tell he was happy to hang out with me. I'm so grateful to have him in my life, even if we're not together. I've come to the realization that we are not meant to be together, at least for this time. If something comes up in the future, and we've both grown enough and are in a position where we want to try again, than so be it. But for now, I'm so glad that we were able to enjoy one anothers company so well. I felt like a giddy school girl as I was getting ready for our "date". Butterflies and everything! It was wild, but I felt at ease as soon as I saw him. I don't expect him to ever come back, and if he were to, I don't know that I would even WANT him back. But he is such a big part of my life, and I'm so glad that this meeting went well. NOW. I really wanted to text him a "thank you for meeting up with me and having such a great time" text. But, I think I should just lay low and see what he says to me/when he contacts me. Should I just shoot him a quick "thank you" text tomorrow? Or just play it aloof?
iouaname Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 No. You should not send him a text. Absolutely not.
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