crazycanuck Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 So long story short me and my ex have been brokenup for 6 weeks. We broke up due to some boundarie issues on her side and I become jealous/needy/clingy. Anyways we didn't talk a week after break up and on xmas night she asks me to come over. We talk,argue,realize our faults.. we have sex. She says what now? I say we gotta get back together but let the smoke clear and fix this. So since that night she still texts me everyday but I get so clingy that I keep asking are we on path to get back together I just like the reassurance. I'm cooling it with that its everytime she opens up I feel good and I want more. I love this woman very much and I know I need to be better for myself, but this past Monday she asks me to come over says she misses me,loveme still. And says will u be mine again just give it some time so she can see my change progressing, of course I blow it again feeling like were back together or close and I push her away. I brought up the idea that I vanish for a while and if she still has feelings for me she can just find me she says no I don't want that, and we'll will be together again she says its her womans intuition. Why can't I just relax if she says what she means she'll show me and I've been showing her too (work in progress), part of me is leary tho that she can't let me go or she's seeing what else is out there. Which I've asked and she said she has no intentions of it and we'll be together forever. Why can't I just take her at face value and just relax and let it happen? Its hard to control myself when I just want my life back,my routine back, my girl back and apparantly she wants the same. We still tell each other everyday we love each other even being broke up 6 weeks!! She initiates the texts and calls I'm trying to respect her space and keep things lite but then I ask am I still what u want? How can I just chill the F out and let happen the we way we want it too...
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