candie13 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 linky not worky... Imported, those looks in your links are a no-no in my book
Author miss_jaclynrae Posted January 26, 2013 Author Posted January 26, 2013 http://a1.ec-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/54/44182e19533a4f29bbcd64dfea7b672f/l.jpg This one should work.
veggirl Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 I think we need a frame of reference. Does anyone here think the way op is dressed in her avatar is "too much" for say, a night out on the town? No it is not too much for a night out. I'm curious where these other people live? lol it's A DRESS AND HEELS. What is the problem. eta: hmm and the blazer makes it like conservative up top! 1
Imported Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Umm...not my style, but besides being tacky, what's wrong with these outfits? It is attention seeking. It goes beyond just trying to look nice. You don't dress like that to go have a few beers with some friends and come home. A girl that goes around wearing a mini-skirt, high heels, tops that show lots of cleavage, for a girls night out. If I was her boyfriend, I'd be concerned. Her dressing like that and going out with me is one thing. Her dressing like that and leaving me behind is another. Especially if I knew as a fact that she has had many partners before me.
silvermercy Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 No it is not too much for a night out. I'm curious where these other people live? lol it's A DRESS AND HEELS. What is the problem. eta: hmm and the blazer makes it like conservative up top! As I said, it depends where you live.
KungFuJoe Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 It is attention seeking. It goes beyond just trying to look nice. You don't dress like that to go have a few beers with some friends and come home. A girl that goes around wearing a mini-skirt, high heels, tops that show lots of cleavage, for a girls night out. If I was her boyfriend, I'd be concerned. Her dressing like that and going out with me is one thing. Her dressing like that and leaving me behind is another. Especially if I knew as a fact that she has had many partners before me. Sounds like you have self confidence or trust issues. I have no problem with my woman wearing sexy clothing, even when she goes out without me. I want her to have fun, no matter what. If I didn't trust her enough to have to guard what she wears, I wouldn't be with her in the first place. 1
Author miss_jaclynrae Posted January 26, 2013 Author Posted January 26, 2013 It is attention seeking. It goes beyond just trying to look nice. You don't dress like that to go have a few beers with some friends and come home. A girl that goes around wearing a mini-skirt, high heels, tops that show lots of cleavage, for a girls night out. If I was her boyfriend, I'd be concerned. Her dressing like that and going out with me is one thing. Her dressing like that and leaving me behind is another. Especially if I knew as a fact that she has had many partners before me. WHY though?
Imported Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Sounds like you have self confidence or trust issues. I have no problem with my woman wearing sexy clothing, even when she goes out without me. I want her to have fun, no matter what. If I didn't trust her enough to have to guard what she wears, I wouldn't be with her in the first place. Some guys like to watch their wife suck on other guys cocks, because it is important that she has fun no matter what. Maybe that means they have more self-confidence and trust?
veggirl Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 As I said, it depends where you live. It's hot where I live and people are pretty chill and relaxed. I would wear that to a NYE party or a cocktail party at a friends house. Or if I went to fancier bar, but typically the only bars I go to are dives. She wouldn't look out of place here. I'm sure people dress similarly all over, maybe just not in places some of the posters that are commenting hang out at or something.
Author miss_jaclynrae Posted January 26, 2013 Author Posted January 26, 2013 Some guys like to watch their wife suck on other guys cocks, because it is important that she has fun no matter what. Maybe that means they have more self-confidence and trust? You don't make sense.
MrCastle Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Sounds like you have self confidence or trust issues. I have no problem with my woman wearing sexy clothing, even when she goes out without me. I want her to have fun, no matter what. If I didn't trust her enough to have to guard what she wears, I wouldn't be with her in the first place. Dude, it's not about trusting her, it's about not trusting the strange men around her. Have you actually been inside of a bar? Have you seen the way some drunk men act around a scantily clad woman? It sometimes causes unnecessary drama. Not saying the girl should have to change how she dresses, but realize what kind of responses she may generate with what she wears, and being a man, realizing that when she goes out like that, you have to be on guard.
KungFuJoe Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Some guys like to watch their wife suck on other guys cocks, because it is important that she has fun no matter what. Maybe that means they have more self-confidence and trust? Wow...you've got issues, you know that?
KungFuJoe Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Dude, it's not about trusting her, it's about not trusting the strange men around her. Have you actually been inside of a bar? Have you seen the way some drunk men act around a scantily clad woman? It sometimes causes unnecessary drama. Not saying the girl should have to change how she dresses, but realize what kind of responses she may generate with what she wears, and being a man, realizing that when she goes out like that, you have to be on guard. Have I been inside of a bar? Are you joking? I've been a bar/club rat since I was 19. My wife can MORE than handle herself in ANY situation. I'd be more worried about the guy that tried to get too "friendly" with her. One time, a LONG time ago, some guy was hitting on her relentlessly while she was dancing with her sisters/friends and she straight up shoved the guy, by his FACE, and told him to **** off. She was a bit drunk, admittedly. She's one tough bitch.
candie13 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 http://a1.ec-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/54/44182e19533a4f29bbcd64dfea7b672f/l.jpg This one should work. I've always lived in Europe, and I can tell you that in Switzerland, that look may be perceived as trying too hard and leaving too little to imagination. But there are clubs and bars for all sorts of looks, you're the one wearing the dress, you should be the one very comfortable wearing it, walking in it, dancing in it. if bf loves this style, you should not seek public approval !
JuneJulySeptember Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 http://a1.ec-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/54/44182e19533a4f29bbcd64dfea7b672f/l.jpg This one should work. Other women would definitely think that look is slutty. I wouldn't mind if my GF dressed like that once in a while I guess, but like I said, you're just bringing on a potential fight. If it was just you dressing up like that at home for me, HELLS YEA, bring it on! I prefer your look with the sunglasses in the car for an everyday look. I think, for the most part, you have to be able to pull off the look. If you aren't attractive enough, with the right body, dressing like op is just going to make you look worse. It's like if a fat dude tried to wear a tailor fitted shirt or skinny jeans. Just about any woman who is not overweight or a total twig can wear that outfit and hook up for the night.
MrCastle Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Have I been inside of a bar? Are you joking? I've been a bar/club rat since I was 19. My wife can MORE than handle herself in ANY situation. I'd be more worried about the guy that tried to get too "friendly" with her. One time, a LONG time ago, some guy was hitting on her relentlessly while she was dancing with her sisters/friends and she straight up shoved the guy, by his FACE, and told him to **** off. She was a bit drunk, admittedly. She's one tough bitch. Right, so you know what I'm talking about. Now, 95% of that is on the drunk *******, but if he's looking to aggressively approach some females, who is gonna go with, the more conservative dressed girl, or the one who has the lower part of her ass cheeks hanging out.
candie13 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 as a woman who wants to dress however I damn well please, I am a firm believer that the answer to your question should be "whomever is most unlucky"... but unfortunately, it is not ! @ JuneJulySeptember: the key word in your post is "hook up", isn't it ?
JuneJulySeptember Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Dude, it's not about trusting her, it's about not trusting the strange men around her. Have you actually been inside of a bar? Have you seen the way some drunk men act around a scantily clad woman? It sometimes causes unnecessary drama. Not saying the girl should have to change how she dresses, but realize what kind of responses she may generate with what she wears, and being a man, realizing that when she goes out like that, you have to be on guard. That is true. Every one of my female friends has been hit on in a bar or club by a d@uchebag. EVERY one at one time or another. And let's just say I don't hang out with the Victoria's Secrets Angels. And none of them wear mini-skirts and platform heels either. So, if they did, it'd be ten times worse. as a woman who wants to dress however I damn well please, I am a firm believer that the answer to your question should be "whomever is most unlucky"... but unfortunately, it is not ! @ JuneJulySeptember: the key word in your post is "hook up", isn't it ? Actually the key word was 'any woman'.
KungFuJoe Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Right, so you know what I'm talking about. Now, 95% of that is on the drunk *******, but if he's looking to aggressively approach some females, who is gonna go with, the more conservative dressed girl, or the one who has the lower part of her ass cheeks hanging out. I don't worry about things like that. I trust my wife completely. Not only do I trust her to be faithful, I also trust how she will handle herself in a situation. She's a tough, street smart girl, who knows how to deal with people. BUT, she's not dressing like a tramp. Her ass cheeks are not hanging out. She doesn't have her boobs spilling all over the place (well...she doesn't have enough boobs for that anyways ). She dresses...sexy. I've posted this pic here before, but this is a pretty good example of how my wife dresses (this was in Vegas, btw). Sometimes she's a bit more casual (skirt, or shorts and top) and sometimes not (shorter dress, flashier color such as red, etc). ImageShack® - Online Photo and Video Hosting
veggirl Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 I can't believe people are objecting to a freakin dress and heels for a night out. It's not like she is wearing it grocery shopping omg.
xxoo Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 (edited) Did you ask what his objection was? Sorry to be blunt, but the combo of very short, very clingy, and very shiny just looks tacky to me. Maybe he objected to your taste more than the sexiness? eta...in way of comparison, KungFu's wife's dress is also short and tight, but has some substance to the fabric, and some shape, so it looks less clingy. It doesn't look like it is "painted on". So it looks classier, imo. Edited January 27, 2013 by xxoo 1
JuneJulySeptember Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Did you ask what his objection was? Sorry to be blunt, but the combo of very short, very clingy, and very shiny just looks tacky to me. Maybe he objected to your taste more than the sexiness? eta...in way of comparison, KungFu's wife's dress is also short and tight, but has some substance to the fabric, and some shape, so it looks less clingy. It doesn't look like it is "painted on". So it looks classier, imo. His wife's heels are also more conservative and shorter. That makes a big difference.
Divasu Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 I think we need a frame of reference. Does anyone here think the way op is dressed in her avatar is "too much" for say, a night out on the town? I do. I think she is a beautiful woman, but the dress is something that reminds me of what one would see in a Two Live Crew video. Though, I assume your question was more geared towards men though.
KungFuJoe Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 His wife's heels are also more conservative and shorter. That makes a big difference. Actually, it's the other way around...probably the pic angle. miss_jacylnrae's heels are shorter. ImageShack® - Online Photo and Video Hosting
mesmerized Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Your outfit was fine. I'm sure your bf got a bit jealous but a bit jealousy is not always a bad thing. It just makes them f*ck you a bit harder and with more passion after and what girl doesn't love that.
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