Confused420 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 My ex broke up with me 2 months ago and we've been completely NC for about 1 month now. The thing is, although I'm healing and am finally starting to feel a better, she still owes me $100. What do you think I should do? I mean, even after we broke up, she said she'll give it me when she has it but then I blocked her from Facebook and made it impossible for her to contact me. She isn't the type to keep my money either, I know she'd give it back if I asked. I could really do with the money now, I'm kinda struggling and $100 would sort me out. Thing is, I don't want to initiate contact. Any advice?
Blastoplast Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 My EX owes me $8,000 -- $100 is nothing to get worked up about
TouchedByViolet Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 $100 is a drop in the bucket. Unless you are about to get thrown out on the street leave it alone
geegirl Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 You survived 2 months without the money. I am sure you can make it through without it. Unless you're using it as a reason to test the waters.
veggirl Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Man I wish I was young(?) enough that $100 would solve any financial issue I'm in OP I am assuming you are young if $100 seems that important to you. If you REALLY, HONESTLY need it and can't borrow it or live without it, then ask a friend to contact your ex for it. Don't do it yourself. Otherwise, $100 should be fairly easy to come up with...sell some CDs, have a small garage sale, etc? 1
whichwayisup Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 My ex broke up with me 2 months ago and we've been completely NC for about 1 month now. The thing is, although I'm healing and am finally starting to feel a better, she still owes me $100. What do you think I should do? I mean, even after we broke up, she said she'll give it me when she has it but then I blocked her from Facebook and made it impossible for her to contact me. She isn't the type to keep my money either, I know she'd give it back if I asked. I could really do with the money now, I'm kinda struggling and $100 would sort me out. Thing is, I don't want to initiate contact. Any advice? 1)Ask a friend to go get the money from her that she owes you. This way you don't have any contact with her. 2)Just go on doing NC and hopefully she'll find a way to give you that 100 bucks 3)Let it go. As much as you need that money, it isn't the end of the world if you don't get it back. I'd rather you keep your peace and stay in NC than focus on getting your money back.
Dmoney28 Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 consider that a $100 down payment on your reclaiming your life back 1
TaraMaiden Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 What's $100 in UK money.....£64.00....? I could make that in 10 minutes selling a couple of books on e-bay.....
Sugarkane Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 Exes can be very passive aggressive. I don't know why dumpers love to keep our things. Aren't they over it? It's highly unlikely you'll ever get it back.
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