secondname Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Ive been divorced about 2 years and ive had my share of onenight stands. Im 26 and met a woman who is also 26 at her work one night. She is a bar tender and i got her number. We talked for a week and the following weekend i took her out to eat then to a small house party. We both got drunk and she actually was straight honest and said she wanted to have sex. We went into a room and 2 of my guy friends walked in and instead of her getting mad and covering her self up, she let them watch. Well, its been about a month and she said she cant believe she got that drunk, she says i was her first one night stand. She says she has feelings for me and wants to be a couple, but im not sure if shes trust worthy considering how we met. And after this past month, i have developed feelings for her :/ Her background. She just got leglly separated 4 months before we met. She was married 3 years. She says she just felt a instant connextion with me and wanted to be crazy for once. It just bothers me mosr, that 2 guy friends watxhed us, and she did not care
Keenly Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 I say just go with it man. You obviously both like eachother. Sounds like what happened is she wanted be crazy assuming it would just be a one night thing but it turns our you both are actually into each other, so just roll with it.
veggirl Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 HAHAHAHA. yeah sure that was her first ONS. a girl who let other men watch her have sex has never had ONS. and she works at a bar. and she is separated but not divorced. Not sure why you're wasting your time unless all you want is sex. 2
silvermercy Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Ive been divorced about 2 years and ive had my share of onenight stands. Im 26 and met a woman who is also 26 at her work one night. She is a bar tender and i got her number. We talked for a week and the following weekend i took her out to eat then to a small house party. We both got drunk and she actually was straight honest and said she wanted to have sex. We went into a room and 2 of my guy friends walked in and instead of her getting mad and covering her self up, she let them watch. Well, its been about a month and she said she cant believe she got that drunk, she says i was her first one night stand. She says she has feelings for me and wants to be a couple, but im not sure if shes trust worthy considering how we met. And after this past month, i have developed feelings for her :/ Her background. She just got leglly separated 4 months before we met. She was married 3 years. She says she just felt a instant connextion with me and wanted to be crazy for once. It just bothers me mosr, that 2 guy friends watxhed us, and she did not care Bolded: Correct me if I'm wrong but weren't YOU there, too, when this was happening!? Double standards much??? (And, no, it doesn't matter if those were your friends and not hers. Same difference). 1
Author secondname Posted January 26, 2013 Author Posted January 26, 2013 Silvermercy, word for word she text me the same statement about double stanards. But, what if it was 2 girls watching us instead of 2 guys. She would then be in my shoes.
silvermercy Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 (edited) Silvermercy, word for word she text me the same statement about double stanards. But, what if it was 2 girls watching us instead of 2 guys. She would then be in my shoes. You're kidding? Right? RIGHT!?? Seriously, let her go for her own sake!! (And also allow me to doubt you'd be that bothered if those were 2 females watching... the only thing that truly bothers you is that your friends were male instead of female... That's very hypocritical, to be honest, and very low to try to put the full blame on her) Edited January 26, 2013 by silvermercy 1
Miss1122 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Ive been divorced about 2 years and ive had my share of onenight stands. Im 26 and met a woman who is also 26 at her work one night. She is a bar tender and i got her number. We talked for a week and the following weekend i took her out to eat then to a small house party. We both got drunk and she actually was straight honest and said she wanted to have sex. We went into a room and 2 of my guy friends walked in and instead of her getting mad and covering her self up, she let them watch. Well, its been about a month and she said she cant believe she got that drunk, she says i was her first one night stand. She says she has feelings for me and wants to be a couple, but im not sure if shes trust worthy considering how we met. And after this past month, i have developed feelings for her :/ Her background. She just got leglly separated 4 months before we met. She was married 3 years. She says she just felt a instant connextion with me and wanted to be crazy for once. It just bothers me mosr, that 2 guy friends watxhed us, and she did not care Did you care that your two guy friends were watching you? I don't think you did either. Why didn't you ask them to leave the room? 2
Keenly Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 You guys are all missing the most important question. Why would your friends WANT to watch you have sex lol 2
soccerrprp Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 You guys are all missing the most important question. Why would your friends WANT to watch you have sex lol Hmmm...AND WHY WOULD YOU LET YOUR FRIENDS WATCH unless you thought nothing was to come of the event and you were prepared to dump her or not hear from her afterwards???? I would be questioning both of you. 1
KraftDinner Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 The reasons you aren't sure you should trust her relate to stuff she did...with you. You did it too. Serious question: do you trust yourself? I'm not being facetious. Are you seeing a part of yourself in her (not in the sex way, haha) that reflects a flaw in yourself? Or is it just a double standard? If the latter, get a clue. If the former...what is it about yourself that you're afraid you'll do? Are you a cheater?
veggirl Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 I think the problem is that the OP suspects the girl is full of s.hit. OP was that your first ONS? did you claim it was like she did? There's NO WAY it was her first. NO way. PLUS he has every dang right to be weirded out that the chick was fine with people watching her fk. Just like she has the right to be weirded out that he was fine with it.
Author secondname Posted January 26, 2013 Author Posted January 26, 2013 Im not a cheater, never have, never will. I was single so yea, i didnt see us developing feelings. Ive had 4 one night stands. I told her ive had ons too. I dont know what made me get feelings but i did. In the past month ive met her parents. Her mom told me that the first night i met her and got her number she talked about me that whole week until we met up.So before we even had our first date she had already mentioned me to her parents. That coukd be good i guess. I wasnt expecting to get feelings, i was drunk, single and having fun...shes using the same excuse. I guess it just backfired cause i cant get the way we met out of my head
Charlie Harper Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Go for it, if she is no good, you really found out yourself and not by making mental masturbation. Yeah 2 guys watched, but she AND YOU were drunk, so bad mistake... if you can get her out of your head that means something AND YOU KNOW IT. Give her a chance or tell her you are not interested.... relationships always have their "issues".
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