So annoying when he´s testing me!!? Or what is he doing?

[Yeahsussu]

Hello all!

 

I´ve been with my boyfriend now for 6 months. Everything is fine and I love him very much, definately a keeper! Every person has its flaws, I have too, and what annoyes me sometimes with my BF is how he is kind of testing me just to see how I will react or what I will say.

 

For example, it was in the middle of the night, we were laying on the sofa and I was pretty tired. Then all of a sudden he brings up a discussion about where we would like to live in the future. He suggests a random place outside our city, and I was just like, what? Told him that the place is just a little village and I don´t have any connection to that place etc.. I wasn´t really up for a discussion about this in the middle of the night, so my answers were a bit fuzzy. Then he brings forward all the benefits about this place and wanted me to name three reasons for not wanting to live there. I wasn´t up for this type of "game" and just told him I would not like to live there, and said that I was tired and didn´t feel like discussing this right now.

 

Well he kept on pretty much talking to himself about this place and then he started to say that maybe the place is too far away from work. Half asleep I said "yes, that place is way too far away from work", and then he asked why I didn´t say so in the beginning etc..Then he listed a few things I COULD´VE said... Drives me nuts! Afterwards he then said that this was a bit worrying if I always will say that I´m too tired or something when we have these type of discussions... but comeon it was in the middle of the night!!

 

Why is he doing these "tests" on me? It is just really annoying and feels like he doesn´t respect me. We´re both grown up people, I´m 27 and he´s 31!

 

And not just this, sometimes he questions the way I do things and makes a big deal out of it (small silly things, like how I make coffee). Apparently I should do it his way, but I just say that this is just the way I´m doing it and then he just shakes his head and thinks my way is a waste of time or something.

 

Am I together with a controll freak here??