truth_seeker Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 How many women reach a certain age and settle on a guy because of security? They pretend to be in love with the man they are with but deep down there is no love. They want to appease their family and friends. They date or marry a "good man" with a "good career" who has "good values". He's a good catch but... even though the resume passes and gives them confidence to show off this man, their eye wanders and they privately want out of the relationship. How many women out there dropped the act and actually went for love over security? I feel like now I'm meeting available unavailable women if that makes sense. I feel guilty for flirting yet they open the door for this and quickly shut it when they get scared. I don't know what's worse: being the guy who is teased and played with or the guy who has the girl but the girl pretends to love him?
ChessPieceFace Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 I'm sure there are a myriad of signs that your woman isn't really into you. Personally I would ask or find out about their past boyfriends somehow. If they've gone after "bad boys" in the past, I wouldn't give them the time of day now, whether or not they think they've "wised up." I am now of the moral opinion that girls who go after bad boys deserve to have bad boys their entire lives, and deserve exactly what they get. Not get to screw alphas until they're 30 then suck some poor chump into marriage to use them. It's partly the chump's fault if he lets that happen. Don't let it happen. 1
Author truth_seeker Posted January 26, 2013 Author Posted January 26, 2013 I think there are many women in relationships they truly do not want to be in. They stay because they fear there will be no one else out there for them, or they're afraid the other man will burn them, ie, scared to follow their heart.
TouchedByViolet Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Just for completeness I woulds say there are men out their in loveless relationships too. It goes both ways. Maybe a guy settled after years of searching and has a wandering eye now. Guys can be burned just like women and feel alone too.
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