Sunny85 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 (edited) My ex wants be friends again, goid or bad idea? I still want him back .... Edited January 26, 2013 by Sunny85
Minadee Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 No! I tried to go down this route, and I always wanted more and more from him. You need to heal and let the pain pass before you can even consider being friends.
Droplet Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 My advice : don't. He will sense that you want more and that you are settling for friendship : that's not attractive at all and you will never get him back that way. He needs to feel that you are moving on because right now, you are not a challenge at all for him. Telling him that "Sorry honey, I still like you and respect you a lot but we want different things so being just friends doesn't work for me, so give me a call if you change your mind but I have to move on now" is way more honest and attractive because you actually stand up for yourself. However, if you do that, you need to stick to NC and actually move on. He may call you if he still has some interest in you but there is a possibility that you will never hear from him again so be prepared for that.
Author Sunny85 Posted January 26, 2013 Author Posted January 26, 2013 Oke thanks, but what if I alreay mail with him sometimes cause he asked several times how I was doing? I went No Contact for a year.... But now I mail sometimes with him. he sended me a friend request on facebook, what should I do! ignore t?
PogoStick Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Well it's a year now, so are you ready to be just friends?
AlexfromBoston Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 My ex wants be friends again, goid or bad idea? I still want him back .... Yes!!! If you are interested in getting your ex back you should 100% fall back into the friend zone. And while you are developing a friendly relationship, look your best and sound confident. Let him know that you are enjoying the single and make it known that he screwed up big time in losing you.
mammasita Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Oke thanks, but what if I alreay mail with him sometimes cause he asked several times how I was doing? I went No Contact for a year.... But now I mail sometimes with him. he sended me a friend request on facebook, what should I do! ignore t? If you still love him and want him back, its a bad idea. Deny his friend request.
geegirl Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Yes!!! If you are interested in getting your ex back you should 100% fall back into the friend zone. And while you are developing a friendly relationship, look your best and sound confident. Let him know that you are enjoying the single and make it known that he screwed up big time in losing you. Where is the "dislike" button?
Simon Phoenix Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Yes!!! If you are interested in getting your ex back you should 100% fall back into the friend zone. And while you are developing a friendly relationship, look your best and sound confident. Let him know that you are enjoying the single and make it known that he screwed up big time in losing you. This is tongue-in-cheek right?
EricaH329 Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 My ex wants be friends again, goid or bad idea? I still want him back .... That says it all. You shouldn't even have to ask.
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