irc333 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 I'm starting to think, with the commonality of these failed, one-sided relationships that I hear so much about, I am thinking it all might even started from even the initial dating phases. Basically, the man asks the woman out, she blows him off 3 or 4 times before she finally agrees to it half-heartedly. REason I say this, is because a woman I knew, I saw her with a new boyfriend....never saw him before in my life (I knew her through my social circle, so he wasn't from OUR circle) I got to talking to her, and asked about him. SHes aid, "Yeah, he asked me out a bunch of times, before I said yes...so now we're together." I figured the guy must've been desperate or clinger if that'st the case? Apparently, it seems to be the way people date....some women also tend to gauge a relationship-capable man by how much she can get him to ask her out on numerous occasions until that "Maybe" turns into a "Yes". I am dealing with this lately myself, I asked a woman out, but she said, 'Hm, I'm still a maybe for this weekend". To me a "maybe" is a big fat NO.....but yet she still continues to tell me about her daily problems and crap on the day she said, "Maybe" to, and I forced myself not to throw in "So you available tonight?" Instead, I'm just keeping my mouth shut...but I am wondering if this IS how it is? The whole mating ritual involves the guy getting blown off (not rejected), until she finally caves and goes "Yawn...okay, I'll go out with you tonight"? Later on, you always hear, even a year or so into their exclusive relationship....how they had to call off the relationship , because it was SO one-sided. Yes...no? After this, I'm looking at my friends that are couples and wondering if there is ONE person in that relationship always kissing that other persons arse?
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