zah Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 so we've been together for 3 years. i moved in with her, we lived together for about 6 months and it ruined everything! it was in a bad area with no social life and a terrible job... she kinda said get your own place near here or go back home, but you can't stay here cuz its ruining us. she said she wanted to take a break and resume when i'm happy with myself again, have my career started, with my own place in the city, etc. so we decided to take a break, and i quit and split. started searching for new jobs.. its been 2.5 months, and we've both really wanted to get back together and make it work... however, as time goes by she's communicating less and less with me.. probably cuz i didn't give her enough space.. and eventually i see a photo i'm not supposed to see of her at a bar with a stud's arms around her. she tells me it was nothing, just a fun night out dancing... "but either way we're on break..." ... sooo g_d damn photo has been haunting me! i wanna know what that **** all means, regarding her interest in me... know what i mean? incidentally, i'm also almost positive i got a job in the city, so i'm close to the "criterion" we set towards getting back together. i guess i still have a good shot of making it work out together (i'll be in the city soon, closer to her, and have a new career and social life), but i just feel like she's getting more and more distant, we have less and less trust, and it's stripping me of all my happiness. i know i should forgive the photo, but its eating at my ego. i want her back. any advice?
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