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PhillyDude Established Member

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Does this woman really expect me to wait around until the 8th of Feb because she has plans? She had plans this weekend and will be out of town next weekend. Why is can't she just say she is dating someone? And I swear if she sends me a message on the 7th asking........."are we still on?

 

 

She will get the most disrespectful message of her life.

 

 

BTW: No text or call from her since we talked on Monday. So I have deleted her number and moved on.

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Does this woman really expect me to wait around until the 8th of Feb because she has plans? She had plans this weekend and will be out of town next weekend. Why is can't she just say she is dating someone? And I swear if she sends me a message on the 7th asking........."are we still on?

 

 

She will get the most disrespectful message of her life.

 

 

BTW: No text or call from her since we talked on Monday. So I have deleted her number and moved on.

 

Are you sure you've moved on? yikes man.

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PhillyDude Established Member

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Are you sure you've moved on? yikes man.

 

 

It's weird though because we chatted on the phone for a hour but I just can't wait that long to see someone I have interest in

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Does this woman really expect me to wait around until the 8th of Feb because she has plans? She had plans this weekend and will be out of town next weekend. Why is can't she just say she is dating someone? And I swear if she sends me a message on the 7th asking........."are we still on?

 

 

She will get the most disrespectful message of her life.

 

 

BTW: No text or call from her since we talked on Monday. So I have deleted her number and moved on.

 

If she has plans she has plans.

 

Right now if a woman asked me out i wouldn't be able two

For 2 weeks. My business is buzy the next 2 weekends

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You cant expect a woman to derail her entire life so you

Can get some vajayna.

 

Be a adult not crybaby

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KungFuJoe Established Member

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Wow...pussy whipped and ain't even gotten the pussy yet.

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PhillyDude Established Member

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Lol.......

 

NEXT.

 

 

 

I thought about making her a fetish girl but something won't let me. I think I have a lot of respect for her

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PhillyDude Established Member

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If she has plans she has plans.

 

Right now if a woman asked me out i wouldn't be able two

For 2 weeks. My business is buzy the next 2 weekends

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You cant expect a woman to derail her entire life so you

Can get some vajayna.

 

Be a adult not crybaby

 

 

I can understand that, but if there is no contacting on her part then I wouldn't be a fool and still take her out. No text or call saying anything in 5 days.

charlietheginger Established Member

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my girlfriend has to fly outta state for the weekend

She is fitness competitor. The company pays her to

Attend fitness events and pass out bags of diet pills

Then she flies out after to another event. I prob won't

See her for 3weeks.

 

I understood this when we met. This is why she is a 9.

And cant keep a boyfriend. But i said id commit because

When i do see her everyother weekend i get to be with

A 9.

 

Women that are successful aren't desperate for men.

They also are not gonna rearrange plans work for a man

Thats just how it is.

 

So to the OP ? Is she worth waiting 2 weeks？

she might have legit plans and actually be worth the wait.

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crude Established Member

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You haven't gone out with her for your entire life up until now, so what's the rush over a few weeks? Relax, ditch the hissy fit, and go out with her whenever. Make her feel guilty, and maybe get some early action.

KungFuJoe Established Member

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You haven't gone out with her for your entire life up until now, so what's the rush over a few weeks? Relax, ditch the hissy fit, and go out with her whenever. Make her feel guilty, and maybe get some early action.

 

LOL...oh yeah like THAT'S going to happen.

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PhillyDude Established Member

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my girlfriend has to fly outta state for the weekend

She is fitness competitor. The company pays her to

Attend fitness events and pass out bags of diet pills

Then she flies out after to another event. I prob won't

See her for 3weeks.

 

I understood this when we met. This is why she is a 9.

And cant keep a boyfriend. But i said id commit because

When i do see her everyother weekend i get to be with

A 9.

 

Women that are successful aren't desperate for men.

They also are not gonna rearrange plans work for a man

Thats just how it is.

 

So to the OP ? Is she worth waiting 2 weeks？

she might have legit plans and actually be worth the wait.

 

 

Yes if she calls me and ask how I am doing or text me between now and then

SJC2008 Established Member

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I wouldn't worry about it. I texted the last woman I met for 3 weeks before we were able to go on a date. We both were busy with shcool. In your case it's only two weeks.

FitChick Established Member

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Why can't you have a quick meet and greet during the week?

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PhillyDude Established Member

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Why can't you have a quick meet and greet during the week?

 

 

She works two jobs

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PhillyDude Established Member

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I wouldn't worry about it. I texted the last woman I met for 3 weeks before we were able to go on a date. We both were busy with shcool. In your case it's only two weeks.

 

 

So there was not much contact during a 7 day period?

SJC2008 Established Member

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So there was not much contact during a 7 day period?

 

We kept light steady contact, a day missed here and there...

 

It depends on the woman and the situation though. The one I dated was attention whoring because she isn't over her ex so she had no problem initiaing...

Keenly Established Member

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Are you crazy man?

 

I'm quite sure that expecting some one to drop everything they are doing just for you is, I don't know, sociopath behavior?

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PhillyDude Established Member

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Are you crazy man?

 

I'm quite sure that expecting some one to drop everything they are doing just for you is, I don't know, sociopath behavior?

 

 

I was seeing if I could be squeezed in during the week like a monday or tuesday but she works later now.

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PhillyDude Established Member

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February 8th is not a long time?

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Mme. Chaucer Established Member

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I met a guy online in April and because he traveled for work and I was busy most weekends, we didn't meet in person until June 6.

 

We're married now.

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TheZebra Established Member

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OP is a mythical creature that I didn't think existed.

 

Ladies and gents....... the high maintenance man.

 

Seriously, OP, all of your posts are always much ado about nothing. You're always complaining about the smallest things. Women don't like that... scratch that, PEOPLE don't like that...

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Els Established Member

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Nobody's 'expecting' you to wait for anything, y'know. She works two jobs, she's busy. If that's too long for you, it's totally understandable for you to choose not to wait. People's lives don't revolve around you.

 

 

 

 

 

...Just like how employers don't check whether or not you have a haircut appointment before scheduling your job interview.

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mortensorchid Established Member

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If someone tells you they will not be free until a certain date in the future, they are telling you they are not interested. At least, they are not interested in you enough to see you between now and then. And that's reason enough to not continue with it.

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If someone tells you they will not be free until a certain date in the future, they are telling you they are not interested. At least, they are not interested in you enough to see you between now and then. And that's reason enough to not continue with it.

 

Or maybe they really are very busy and don't have the ability to drop everything just to chase after someone. It's possible.

Charlie Harper Established Member

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Maybe you expect her to have a clean agenda, just in case YOU might show up in her life..

 

She has a life, and persons like that have things to do....

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