lovesickpuppy Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 There I said it! Where are the men that like women who are clever, who are ambitious, driven and different?! Or maybe I'm just wearing a sign that says 'yeah, I'm down for sex, don't take any interest in my personality, you can't stick your dick in that'...sorry, rant over. I just needed to vent. Or maybe it's me with the ass hole of a personality? Who knows!
Green Light Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 There I said it! Where are the men that like women who are clever, who are ambitious, driven and different?! Or maybe I'm just wearing a sign that says 'yeah, I'm down for sex, don't take any interest in my personality, you can't stick your dick in that'...sorry, rant over. I just needed to vent. Or maybe it's me with the ass hole of a personality? Who knows! It may not be a bad idea to look at yourself in the mirror for a while. Perhaps your personality could use some softening. 1
Author lovesickpuppy Posted January 26, 2013 Author Posted January 26, 2013 It may not be a bad idea to look at yourself in the mirror for a while. Perhaps your personality could use some softening. I'm not going to change for any man, I don't think it needs softening, as Marilyn Monroe said 'if he can't handle you at your worst, then he sure as hell don't deserve you at your best' or something like that. 1
MrCastle Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 'if he can't handle you at your worst, then he sure as hell don't deserve you at your best' Why would I want her at her worst? 3
SmileFace Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 I'm not going to change for any man, I don't think it needs softening, as Marilyn Monroe said 'if he can't handle you at your worst, then he sure as hell don't deserve you at your best' or something like that. Burn it with fire .... 4
MrNate 2.0 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 I'm not going to change for any man, I don't think it needs softening, as Marilyn Monroe said 'if he can't handle you at your worst, then he sure as hell don't deserve you at your best' or something like that. Oh, not this quote again. Ain't nobody got time for that. 8
MrNate 2.0 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Burn it with fire .... I'm marrying you. 3
Author lovesickpuppy Posted January 26, 2013 Author Posted January 26, 2013 I was actually being sarcastic, I guess again, I'm extremely misunderstood.
somedude81 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 What in the hell does this mean anyways? It means, "If you can't handle me when I act like a spoiled bitch, which I will do often, then you don't deserve me." 7
ThaWholigan Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 I was actually being sarcastic, I guess again, I'm extremely misunderstood. Probably, but irregardless, you should probably never use that quote again And besides, there are men out there who like all those attributes you are talking about - but as long as the venting is kept to places like this (and even then, to a minimum at least ), you'll have better luck finding them . 5
JuneJulySeptember Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 There I said it! Where are the men that like women who are clever, who are ambitious, driven and different?! Or maybe I'm just wearing a sign that says 'yeah, I'm down for sex, don't take any interest in my personality, you can't stick your dick in that'...sorry, rant over. I just needed to vent. Or maybe it's me with the ass hole of a personality? Who knows! Everybody thinks they are that. If men want you for sex, but don't want to keep you around, then yes, it's likely your personality or lack of success.
runningfar Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Sorry, I took him off the market I think there's more good guys than bad out there. It's worth seeing why you attract or are attracted to guys who are less than stellar.
harnold Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Where are the men that like women who are clever, who are ambitious, driven and different?! Some of you girls are impossible. I find that alot of girls that are very ambitious, driven, etc, set unrealistic ideals for themselves. Thinking they are "too good" for any guy that tries to pursue something with them. Lotta these girls seem to just end up marrying some rich older dude, only to inevitably become miserable with them and eventually divorce them. I'm not saying any of this applies to you. I am just generalizing across a broad spectrum of girls which I have come across (I live on Long Island where this seems to be a trend). But hey, if you have any tips for an ambitious, driven guy, who also sets unrealistic ideals and shoots for the exact same type of women, by all means feel free to share them! (and yes I am being serious, I do want some tips) 1
SJC2008 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 I'm not going to change for any man, I don't think it needs softening, as Marilyn Monroe said 'if he can't handle you at your worst, then he sure as hell don't deserve you at your best' or something like that. Ask not what deez nutz can do for you, but what can you do for deez nutz! 1
SJC2008 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Probably, but irregardless, you should probably never use that quote again And besides, there are men out there who like all those attributes you are talking about - but as long as the venting is kept to places like this (and even then, to a minimum at least ), you'll have better luck finding them . And why shouldn't she use that quote again? Let her vent, who are you to tell her to keep it to a minimum? That chip on your shoulder is getting pretty big. 1
Taramere Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 There I said it! Where are the men that like women who are clever, who are ambitious, driven and different?! My guess is that they're sitting around pondering the whereabouts of all the women who should be appreciating the clever, driven, unique snowflakes that they are. 1
DollWelch Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 There I said it! Where are the men that like women who are clever, who are ambitious, driven and different?! Or maybe I'm just wearing a sign that says 'yeah, I'm down for sex, don't take any interest in my personality, you can't stick your dick in that'...sorry, rant over. I just needed to vent. Or maybe it's me with the ass hole of a personality? Who knows! I would like to know too! If and when you find these REAL men, probably hiding in a cave, let me know. 1
Author lovesickpuppy Posted January 26, 2013 Author Posted January 26, 2013 All I'm saying is, there are loads of intelligent, great looking, ambitious women out there and yet not one of them can attract a guy worth their time (myself included). I'm not arrogant, I'm merely stating the obvious which is very unfortunate, but it's true. I've dated a few guys recently, I've had fun, yet not one of them could even pretend they were listening when I started talking about what holds significance in my life. Where are the nice men that will talk to me about books and be impressed with my knowledge and interests in certain things? Mmmm they don't exist it seems.... 1
Treasa Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 All I'm saying is, there are loads of intelligent, great looking, ambitious women out there and yet not one of them can attract a guy worth their time (myself included). I'm not arrogant, I'm merely stating the obvious which is very unfortunate, but it's true. I've dated a few guys recently, I've had fun, yet not one of them could even pretend they were listening when I started talking about what holds significance in my life. Where are the nice men that will talk to me about books and be impressed with my knowledge and interests in certain things? Mmmm they don't exist it seems.... So you want a "real" man, one who is clever, ambitious, driven and different (what does that even mean?), and also someone who will listen to you, be nice, talk to you about your interests, be impressed with you..did I leave anything out? Honey, men aren't like made-to-order omelets. Like women, they may have a lot of good qualities but not hit every single item on your list. There are a TON of good men out there. Why not work on being sweet and kind, and then finding guys who are honest and looking for what you're looking for? They may not have all the same interests as you, but differences are good. It means you can do your own thing and they can do theirs, and then you can come back together again. I think you should figure out one or two qualities that are must-haves (for me it's honesty and a willingness to **** me whenever I want it), and then be a little more forgiving on the rest. 5
sid3 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 All I'm saying is, there are loads of intelligent, great looking, ambitious women out there and yet not one of them can attract a guy worth their time (myself included). I'm not arrogant, I'm merely stating the obvious which is very unfortunate, but it's true. I've dated a few guys recently, I've had fun, yet not one of them could even pretend they were listening when I started talking about what holds significance in my life. Where are the nice men that will talk to me about books and be impressed with my knowledge and interests in certain things? Mmmm they don't exist it seems.... Yeah, I'm going with your personality needs some work. Your attracting said types of guys for a reason. I doubt your just way too awesome to find a man that's on the same level. Good looking is subjective, so is ambitious. And you've yet to say anything clever. While you may in fact be intelligent, certain man won't even notice or value that if you are perceived to be cum dumpster.
Author lovesickpuppy Posted January 26, 2013 Author Posted January 26, 2013 Yeah, I'm going with your personality needs some work. Your attracting said types of guys for a reason. I doubt your just way too awesome to find a man that's on the same level. Good looking is subjective, so is ambitious. And you've yet to say anything clever. While you may in fact be intelligent, certain man won't even notice or value that if you are perceived to be cum dumpster. Sighhhhhhhhhhhhh.
sid3 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 There I said it! Where are the men that like women who are clever, who are ambitious, driven and different?! Or maybe I'm just wearing a sign that says 'yeah, I'm down for sex, don't take any interest in my personality, you can't stick your dick in that'...sorry, rant over. I just needed to vent. Or maybe it's me with the ass hole of a personality? Who knows! Sighhhh is right.
ChessPieceFace Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 The great men are all the ones you've been overlooking all these years, relegated to your friend zone. You're welcome. 4
xxoo Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 All I'm saying is, there are loads of intelligent, great looking, ambitious women out there and yet not one of them can attract a guy worth their time (myself included). I'm not arrogant, I'm merely stating the obvious which is very unfortunate, but it's true. I've dated a few guys recently, I've had fun, yet not one of them could even pretend they were listening when I started talking about what holds significance in my life. Where are the nice men that will talk to me about books and be impressed with my knowledge and interests in certain things? Mmmm they don't exist it seems.... You don't know any intelligent, great looking, ambitious married women?
sillyanswer Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Why would I want her at her worst? Because her best was oh so very good. Which isn't true for most people who have parroted that line since.
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