cbanks Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 I had feelings for a woman for a long time, since high school. She also had feelings for me, but she pretty much ignored my text and phone calls, I got the hint that i was too desperate for her attention so I disappeared. I found out she was sleeping with my twin brother it made me depressed, and I haven't spoke to her in 4 years. Recently she started hitting me up on twitter and facebook, I was thinking why all of a sudden she's starting to talk to me again? Before, she ignored me. I recently became a christian and and I live a peaceful happy life So is it true when you disappear and start becoming happy with your life and doing your own thing, you become more attractive because that person knows you are happy without them?
chrisftw Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 (edited) I had feelings for a woman for a long time, since high school. She also had feelings for me, but she pretty much ignored my text and phone calls, I got the hint that i was too desperate for her attention so I disappeared. I found out she was sleeping with my twin brother it made me depressed, and I haven't spoke to her in 4 years. Recently she started hitting me up on twitter and facebook, I was thinking why all of a sudden she's starting to talk to me again? Before, she ignored me. I recently became a christian and and I live a peaceful happy life So is it true when you disappear and start becoming happy with your life and doing your own thing, you become more attractive because that person knows you are happy without them? Yes AND No. see guys think that in order to make the girl who competley flakes on them and totally ignores their advances/flirting that by going Ghost. or No Contact (NC) that all the sudden that will make the girl drop their panties. that's not how it works. in order for No Contact to work or going ghost a few things have to be in place. 1. you two shared an interaction and it was favorable to both parties 2. there MUST be attraction 3. were friendzoned/had an undesirable outcome/flaked on in the last day or two. point is. the girl has to already find you allureing and for whatever reason decides that she's going to back burner you because she knows you'll be around when the cookie crumbles. going No contact on a girl who could give a rats ass is not going to increase attraction. also keeping Contact SPARSE is also an easy tactic to stay out of the friendzone. Edited January 26, 2013 by chrisftw
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