xxoo Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 The #2 reason is that the vast majority of women who get little attention are overweight, something you can change. Doesn't make sense to whine about that obviously. Most of the men whining are celibate due to something they could change, too. Still, they whine, instead of changing. 2
veggirl Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 LOL. No I don't think that women are only seeking to get laid. But most guys will whine that they can't. yeah dude and the women whine they can't get relationships. it's the same thing, they both aren't getting what they want. 2
somedude81 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Oh look one of the dude theories! Fkin hell. You think women are seeking just getting laid. Wait wait...where's my buddy SD...he said any fat girl who is not a social shut in can get even a boyfriend.......but what boyfriend since regular guys don't like fat girls....oh god its all so confusing............. Yeah regular guys aren't attracted to fat girls, BUTT, that doesn't mean they won't date them. There's a chick in my salsa class who is obese although outgoing and friendly. From overhearing her talk to her friends I know she's had boyfriends. The key is, if a girl seems friendly and attainable, some guys will put aside her looks and go into a relationship with her. They may even tell her she's hot and sexy, though she probably wouldn't want to hear how he describes her to his friends.
Author JuneJulySeptember Posted January 26, 2013 Author Posted January 26, 2013 I love how women here who have friendzoned dozens of men and rejected hundreds more cold and online ALWAYS bring up a guy who has rejected maybe one or two overweight women who he barely knew and say, that makes it all equal. 1
sillyanswer Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 I'm not talking about those ditzes who get hit on by tons of avergae guys guys but want the best. I'm talking about women who get NO to very little male attention. So am I, more or less, at least from the perspective of reading here. Anyway, what I'm really saying is that, yes, I think there are whiny women here.
somedude81 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 But look at the guys who whine. It always the same ones. Dude, new guys come here to whine all the time. Most make a thread or two and then vanish. While others become regulars.
veggirl Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 I love how women here who have friendzoned dozens of men and rejected hundreds more cold and online ALWAYS bring up a guy who has rejected maybe one or two overweight women who he barely knew and say, that makes it all equal. oh for gods sake. you think the average woman has rejected HUNDREDS of men? the AVERAGE woman? where do you get your info btw? from your....large network of average single lady friends? 3
xxoo Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 LOL. No I don't think that women are only seeking to get laid. But most guys will whine that they can't. Yes, women can have random sex with random men if they wish. But few women would enjoy that. So that ability is of extremely little value. Gay men....now, they have it made! They can easily find partners to enjoy random sex, because they are all men. But women are different. We mostly would find that revolting. 1
SmileFace Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Dude, new guys come here to whine all the time. Most make a thread or two and then vanish. While others become regulars. Did I say your name? dafuq 1
mesmerized Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 oh for gods sake. you think the average woman has rejected HUNDREDS of men? the AVERAGE woman? where do you get your info btw? from your....large network of average single lady friends? I think he is counting not responding to the douchbag online who sent a "whattup?" message as a worthy of mention rejection.
StanMusial Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Yes, women can have random sex with random men if they wish. But few women would enjoy that. So that ability is of extremely little value. Just another thing for guys to whine about... they wish they had the ability but don't, and those who do don't appreciate it.
SmileFace Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 I think he is counting not responding to the douchbag online who sent a "whattup?" message as a worthy of mention rejection. Yes you have to count those. How dare you turn down an average go Who probably is a bore 107!!!
xxoo Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 yeah dude and the women whine they can't get relationships. it's the same thing, they both aren't getting what they want. Nevertheless, most average men have girlfriends and sex. And most average women have boyfriends and relationships. So the men and women who do not can not blame "average-ness". 6
fortyninethousand322 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 It's ironic isn't it? Even SD who hasn't been able to get a girl to go out with him in years won't go out with a "fat" girl. Then he comes and claims that fat women have it easy and will never be single? It just seems ironic that it seems only the loser guys are expected to be flexible in their standards. Normal women are justified in having any standards they want. 1
fortyninethousand322 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Nevertheless, most average men have girlfriends and sex. And most average women have boyfriends and relationships. So the men and women who do not can not blame "average-ness". Exactly. So, if you are one of the people who are completely dissatisfied with your dating life, you having done something really really wrong to be in the position you are in.
somedude81 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Did I say your name? dafuq Didn't you realize that this is a gender wars thread?
fortyninethousand322 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Didn't you realize that this is a gender wars thread? This isn't a gender war thread though. In order for that to be the case you'd have to have all the men on one side and then all the women on another. This is a thread in which the only men being put down are the ones who have a hard time getting a date but who nonetheless have realistic standards. Because those guys aren't stereotypically "picky" the only card left to play against them is that they hate women or are judgemental, blah, blah, blah and that's why they can't get dates.
kaylan Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 I direct you to one of my first threads on this forum where I asked the same question OP. Its a decent read. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/311868-where-all-upset-women-online
CptObvious Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 I like how the game is designed tbh. Only alphas should be allowed to reproduce anyways. A lot of people have to fail before u can be a champion.
Crusoe Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 So, why isn't she on here whining? Opinions? Theories? Storing it all up for when she gets married?
Author JuneJulySeptember Posted January 26, 2013 Author Posted January 26, 2013 oh for gods sake. you think the average woman has rejected HUNDREDS of men? the AVERAGE woman? where do you get your info btw? from your....large network of average single lady friends? By age 30 to 35 (my age range)? Yes. Hundreds. Smack dab average. 5'4", 120 lbs, fairly fit, white with an average face who gets about to bars, went to high school and college and was not a total wallflower, and has had a few jobs, maybe served as a waitress or bartender along the way. Hundreds. They all count. Any time a guy on the street, in the bar, in the club, on the bus hits on you, he is attracted to you. Any time a male friend is friendzoned. Any time someone on an online dating site sends you a wink or writes you a message. HUNDREDS as in at least 100. Easily.
Snowman219 Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Because women whine 24/7 in public. Men do it in secret. : ) 1
Revolver Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 Most men complain because they can't get dates. Most women complain because they can't get good dates Look around at some of the threads. Men complaining they can't even get a girl to text them, whereas girls complain that the guy they're sleeping with doesn't want to be exclusive. Huge huge gap. Like I've always said for the most part Women complain because they've been hurt by the game Men complain because they've never been in the game 1
Imajerk17 Posted January 27, 2013 Posted January 27, 2013 (edited) I dont agree w this at all. Most of the male whining is done by a fringe group of male posters whereas many more "mainstream" females get their shots on us in. I'll give an example... We have "mainstream" female posters--I can name two off the top of my head--who whine about how LS makes them feel bad about being over 30. But when I asked one of them to name a poster who said bad things about a woman over 30 (and who wasn't a Bitter Boy) she couldn't do it. Just what I suspected: She was projecting her own insecurities onto the board and blaming the male posters for them. Not cool. Thing is this poster seems to get dates. I think male whining stands out more though because it is decidely unmasculine. Furthermore the default response when a male whines is to tell him to buck up (I do this a lot) or to marginalize him. When a woman whines usually other posters are more sympathetic. There'+s over 100 male posters I've seen here who post whiny stuff here complaining about women being too shallow and picky. I haven't seen any such threads from women. There was one a few days ago by a woman saying guys are too picky who admitted guys will hit on anything that moves and that hot guys hit on her all the time. So guys, when we go out, every now and then we will see an overweight woman who might not get attention. So, why isn't she on here whining? Opinions? Theories? Of course I have mine, but I'll wait for the peanut gallery to respond first. Edited January 27, 2013 by Imajerk17
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