JuneJulySeptember Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 There's over 100 male posters I've seen here who post whiny stuff here complaining about women being too shallow and picky. I haven't seen any such threads from women. There was one a few days ago by a woman saying guys are too picky who admitted guys will hit on anything that moves and that hot guys hit on her all the time. So guys, when we go out, every now and then we will see an overweight woman who might not get attention. So, why isn't she on here whining? Opinions? Theories? Of course I have mine, but I'll wait for the peanut gallery to respond first.
MrNate 2.0 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Now why you gotta go and call us studs here the 'peanut gallery'? I'm offended, madam.
somedude81 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 So guys, when we go out, every now and then we will see an overweight woman who might not get attention. So, why isn't she on here whining? Because she gets attention. An overweight woman who is a little more outgoing than average, will never be single.
fortyninethousand322 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 She probably has friends she can talk to about this. Probably an all-female forum somewhere where girls talk about dating and woman stuff. For guys it's too embarrassing to tell your friends you can't get a date and all the male forums are either love-shy/incel people or PUAs. Hardly anything to glean from that. 4
MrCastle Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Most men complain because they can't get dates. Most women complain because they can't get good dates Look around at some of the threads. Men complaining they can't even get a girl to text them, whereas girls complain that the guy they're sleeping with doesn't want to be exclusive. Huge huge gap. 5
SmileFace Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Umm, do you read ls? Chicks whine and bitch. 2
ThaWholigan Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 She probably has friends she can talk to about this. Probably an all-female forum somewhere where girls talk about dating and woman stuff. For guys it's too embarrassing to tell your friends you can't get a date and all the male forums are either love-shy/incel people or PUAs. Hardly anything to glean from that. This. A man's support network is somewhat unforgiving compared to a woman's. I actually think that a man's personal support network is probably better that way to an extent - not that they shouldn't be given comfort or room to vent, but perhaps they need a bit of a "foot up the ass". 1
Author JuneJulySeptember Posted January 26, 2013 Author Posted January 26, 2013 Umm, do you read ls? Chicks whine and bitch. Not in the same way. They don't create threads about men going after the top women and have these theories. If guys were just as shallow, why not?
veggirl Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 yeah there are plenty of woman whiners on this forum. They may not do it in exactly the same way as the dudes ("wah wah every girl can get a boyfriend but I can't get a girlfriend") but they still do it. It's all good, this forum is a good place to vent and hopefully that makes them feel a little better. 1
mesmerized Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 I don't whine here often because there is no point. The type of advice a lot of the posters here can give me is not the type I would be interested in. That's not to say there aren't some really smart and lovely posters here. Some of them have gotten PMs from me the times I really needed/wanted to talk to someone. 3
veggirl Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Not in the same way. They don't create threads about men going after the top women and have these theories. If guys were just as shallow, why not? No but they will talk about guys hittin & quittin, leering at other women, etc. and the general theory in those threads seems to be "men are pigs" so.... 1
StanMusial Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 There's over 100 male posters I've seen here who post whiny stuff here complaining about women being too shallow and picky. I haven't seen any such threads from women. There was one a few days ago by a woman saying guys are too picky who admitted guys will hit on anything that moves and that hot guys hit on her all the time. So guys, when we go out, every now and then we will see an overweight woman who might not get attention. So, why isn't she on here whining? Opinions? Theories? Of course I have mine, but I'll wait for the peanut gallery to respond first. Because women don't have problems getting laid for the most part.
Green Light Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 It's a good time to be a woman! They really don't have much to whine about. Most of them are "educated" which seems to be very important to them so they are happy about that. Most are "professionals" who bought their first house in their mid-20s. Many have "traveled the world." Most have a thousand options at any given time. They may have to deal with the occasional jerk every now and then but most have a plethora of female shoulders to cry on. Life is good! 1
somedude81 Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Most men complain because they can't get dates. Most women complain because they can't get good dates Look around at some of the threads. Men complaining they can't even get a girl to text them, whereas girls complain that the guy they're sleeping with doesn't want to be exclusive. Huge huge gap. Yup, it's a completely different game.
veggirl Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Because women don't have problems getting laid for the most part. Oh look one of the dude theories! Fkin hell. You think women are seeking just getting laid. Wait wait...where's my buddy SD...he said any fat girl who is not a social shut in can get even a boyfriend.......but what boyfriend since regular guys don't like fat girls....oh god its all so confusing............. 1
Author JuneJulySeptember Posted January 26, 2013 Author Posted January 26, 2013 You want the answer you say? Well OK. The reason is that because so few women get NO male attention. There are guys who get no male attention who don't whine either, but there ARE so many guys that have trouble with women that a good portion of them are manifested here. That is the #1 reason. The #2 reason is that the vast majority of women who get little attention are overweight, something you can change. Doesn't make sense to whine about that obviously. 1
sillyanswer Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 There's over 100 male posters I've seen here who post whiny stuff here complaining about women being too shallow and picky. I haven't seen any such threads from women. Do we read the same forum? I can't think of 100, but there definitely have been posters making threads along the lines of never getting any male attention and being unattractive. They typically degenerate into arguing with the posters that they aren't unattractive, and then discovering that they get plenty of male attention... just not of the wanted variety. But anyway, part of the "why" is that the classic dating dynamic ((that's your warning that gross generalisations will be made any second now...)) is that the men do the chasing and the women do the sitting there looking pretty waiting to get chased. So the men who come back empty-handed whine about it. Well, a few of them do. Or maybe the women who aren't getting what they want are just more gracious about it. (that's a generalisation, too, of course)
SmileFace Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Not in the same way. They don't create threads about men going after the top women and have these theories. If guys were just as shallow, why not? But look at the guys who whine. It always the same ones. That is why it seem like it so constant. Plus it is always the same topics. Anywho - I can easily bitch here. I think at one point I did. However I have been on this board long enough and have gotten tons of great advice and L.S even helped me seek help from a truamatic childhood event. Anyway my time to bitch has passed. I like the opposite sex too much to be so mad and don't blame anyone else for my sometimes lack luster dating life. I guess men are the real bitches.. teehee but in all seriousness some of the female posters are just ass bad when it comes to whining or dealing with the same issues over and over. We can't act like dating for men and women are the same. Plus bitching gets you no where so why waste my time. 3
xxoo Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Because women don't have problems getting laid for the most part. But many will go months without, by choice, if the right guy/situation isn't available. It's not like all the single women are having lots of sex. Maybe they just whine less about celibacy. 2
veggirl Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Yup, it's a completely different game. SD you asked out 3 girls in the last year. That hardly counts man. I didn't get asked on 3 dates last year. plus now I picture you as only going after girls that look like the one in your user pic. Make your pic a photo of a typical girl you would ask out. 1
mesmerized Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Oh look one of the dude theories! Fkin hell. You think women are seeking just getting laid. Wait wait...where's my buddy SD...he said any fat girl who is not a social shut in can get even a boyfriend.......but what boyfriend since regular guys don't like fat girls....oh god its all so confusing............. It's ironic isn't it? Even SD who hasn't been able to get a girl to go out with him in years won't go out with a "fat" girl. Then he comes and claims that fat women have it easy and will never be single? 4
StanMusial Posted January 26, 2013 Posted January 26, 2013 Oh look one of the dude theories! Fkin hell. You think women are seeking just getting laid. Wait wait...where's my buddy SD...he said any fat girl who is not a social shut in can get even a boyfriend.......but what boyfriend since regular guys don't like fat girls....oh god its all so confusing............. LOL. No I don't think that women are only seeking to get laid. But most guys will whine that they can't.
Author JuneJulySeptember Posted January 26, 2013 Author Posted January 26, 2013 Do we read the same forum? I can't think of 100, but there definitely have been posters making threads along the lines of never getting any male attention and being unattractive. They typically degenerate into arguing with the posters that they aren't unattractive, and then discovering that they get plenty of male attention... just not of the wanted variety. But anyway, part of the "why" is that the classic dating dynamic ((that's your warning that gross generalisations will be made any second now...)) is that the men do the chasing and the women do the sitting there looking pretty waiting to get chased. So the men who come back empty-handed whine about it. Well, a few of them do. Or maybe the women who aren't getting what they want are just more gracious about it. (that's a generalisation, too, of course) I'm not talking about those ditzes who get hit on by tons of avergae guys guys but want the best. I'm talking about women who get NO to very little male attention.
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