Michellinda Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 Last Saturday after I went to pick up some my things from the ex's place, he said let's get together Friday. Sunday even texted me are we on for Friday? Now it is Friday and haven't heard a thing. What do you all think happened? I am not texting him because I already agreed and it was a mutual break up (read my previous post) but can't help feeling a bit down. I still love him and I miss him so much. It would make me happy to see him but I know deep down that it might make things worse for me in the long run. i don't want to hurt anymore. Anyway sending all of you love and strength!!!
Leigh 87 Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 He already slept with another girl. He is either focused on spending time with her, or another girl. Or doing something that he enjoys more than spending time with you. Although, probably the former..... You were someone he really liked, but did not care love or care about very deeply (which is evident by his ability to hook up so soon) He liked you and loved you on a shallow level, and became attached to you to some extent. He misses his time with you, and wants to still see you, as the idea of never seeing you again intimately, is harsh, given your shared history and time spent together. He is just a guy who liked you a lot, but not crazily loved you, so he misses you and toys with the idea of having you around for sex and company, but he is not into you enough to discard the other girls he messes around with, either. The good news for you is: he does not care much about the other girl, or girls, either! If he did, he would not have kissed and tried to have sex with you:lmao: He is pathetic. Saying he still cares about you, giving you false hope, all the while he is probably telling this new girl he likes her too. .. I bet the new girl thinks he really likes her, too.....
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