miss_jaclynrae Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 Who should say it first? Would you say it if you had a feeling the other person was not on the same level as you?
TouchedByViolet Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 Who should say it first? Doesn't matter. Would you say it if you had a feeling the other person was not on the same level as you? Hell no. Only say it when you feel the other person is on the same level and make it romantic. 1
mustangguy29 Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 Who should say it first? I don't think it really matters as long as it is not crazy early in the relationship. You can't possibly love someone after a few weeks. Would you say it if you had a feeling the other person was not on the same level as you? I would wait to say it until I think there is at least some chance they will say it back and mean it.
Cutiepie1976 Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 Who should say it first? Doesn't matter. Not going to lie...always feels nicer when the other person goes first though! Would you say it if you had a feeling the other person was not on the same level as you? Big fan of open communication since it's so critical in a healthy relationship! Tell the person how you feel. Who knows, your partner might surprise you with the depth of his feeling. Either way, clarity is a wonderful thing.
sillyanswer Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 Who should say it first? The person who wants to let the other person know how they feel about them. Would you say it if you had a feeling the other person was not on the same level as you? Ahh. A tricky one. I'd probe around the edges to get a better idea of this feeling. 1
MrNate 2.0 Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 Whoever feels ready. If the feeling is truly lying on your heart, express it. Oh yeah, I love you too.
aussietigerwolf Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 awww... I love you too! I wouldn't say it first unless there was a chance he felt the same way.
Eternal Sunshine Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 I have said it first only when I was 99% sure that the guy feels it. I would not say it if I think there is a good chance that he doesn't
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