Suzy.G Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 To keep things short, I am in the process of getting divorced.... My life is upside down and I need some guidance as I don't know what to do, and can't afford an attorney... I was served by my ex (husband) a week ago and I will be filing the response next week... I feel lost as I have never done this before and I also feel helpless as he tells me things to hurt me and has more money as I do and constantly threatens me that he will get an attorney... He texted me last night stating that I will be served AGAIN?? Is this legal? He has brainwashed my daughter and my mom son because they are telling me that they want to be with him, which is their choice....but they start crying and speak in a "scripted manner" as if they were told to say this... I live in Sacramento, California... Any help is more than appreciated..
WhatYouWantToHear Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 and can't afford an attorney...and has more money as I do and constantly threatens me that he will get an attorney Newsflash: If he can afford an attorney, you can afford an attorney. You do realize what married means right? Yours + Mine = Ours Now quit being a victim and start making some decisions.
aMguilts Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 To keep things short, I am in the process of getting divorced.... My life is upside down and I need some guidance as I don't know what to do, and can't afford an attorney... I was served by my ex (husband) a week ago and I will be filing the response next week... I feel lost as I have never done this before and I also feel helpless as he tells me things to hurt me and has more money as I do and constantly threatens me that he will get an attorney... He texted me last night stating that I will be served AGAIN?? Is this legal? He has brainwashed my daughter and my mom son because they are telling me that they want to be with him, which is their choice....but they start crying and speak in a "scripted manner" as if they were told to say this... I live in Sacramento, California... Any help is more than appreciated.. hi Suzy.G I`ll say upfront i know nothing about the law or the process of getting divorced, i mananged to save my marriage so i never got to know the in`s and outs of it all. One thing i will say thou is this with what i`ve put in bold. He is bullying you and that is one thing you need to stop. Next time he texts you , just ignore it.You don`t have to reply to him. As for filing the response next week, do it the week after. There`s a lot of posters on here that are more knowledgeable than i am and i`m sure you will get some really sound advice soon. In the meantime, just ignore him and make sure you and the kids are ok. Keep ALL texts he sends you and if you can record any phone calls he makes to you. aM
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