Sun Devil Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 This semester, I got a new lab partner. She is both cute and intelligent. I am wondering how do I get her to like me. ShouldI ask her out soon, or wait a while? Anyone who went through a similar experience tell me what to do.
awesomesauce Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 Just talk to her, be friendly and get to know her, and then after class or sumin ask her if she wants to get a bite to eat after class or sometime. It's pretty much that simple, just put yourself out there. 1
aussietigerwolf Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 You talk to her, find out if you have any common interests and just be your witty charming self
sweetkiwi Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 Do not ask her out now. Not in a date way. That will cause major awkwardness if she says no. And then you'll still have to be her lab partner. Do what awesomesauce said.
TouchedByViolet Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 Make conversation. Learn about her and share some of yourself with her. Maybe ask her if she wants to work on a lab report with you at a coffee place or something. Do your work together, flirt and if she seems interested ask her out for something. 1
rocketman122 Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 This semester, I got a new lab partner. She is both cute and intelligent. I am wondering how do I get her to like me. ShouldI ask her out soon, or wait a while? Anyone who went through a similar experience tell me what to do. tell her you have this white chemical and ask her if you can mix it with some of her saliva to see what happens. or just whip it out. its always works.
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Author Sun Devil Posted January 25, 2013 Author Posted January 25, 2013 Unless there is a good reason, I should keep it casual. When I meet her again Monday, would asking her out for lunch be a good idea?
clia Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 You really should proceed with caution here. Has she given you any indication at all that she is interested in being more than friends with you? If you ask her out too soon, you run the risk of putting her on the spot and things becoming very awkward between you. She might agree to go to lunch with you even if she doesn't want to because she doesn't know what else to do. She likely won't want to turn you down flat because she is your lab partner. This leads to awkwardness. If she is your lab partner for the rest of the semester this kind of awkwardness could be extremely uncomfortable and could affect your grade. This is why most people try not to date their co-workers. In my opinion, you should just be friendly and flirty with her. If she starts showing signs that she wants more, then ask her out. If you become better friends with her (I'm assuming you just met her?) then it might be appropriate to ask her to grab lunch. My fear -- based on your posts here -- is that you are going to come across as the creepy dude who is interested in nearly any girl who crosses his path, you are so desperate for a girlfriend. What happened to the girl from your other class? Did you ever end up asking her out? Out of curiousity, is this the same lab partner you were interested in back in December? 1
Charlie Harper Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 Use a nice perfume, be clean, talk to her ON TOPIC, and let her wander off (sp?) with the themes, be casual, don t push any agenda till she feels like talking about other stuff to you, learn about her and sometimes talk about her topics/hobbies, be patient and you will see clearly if she is interested and will respond to a date/coffee/munchies/Movies etc... Watch for signs, does she touch you?, she looks at your eyes, she plays with her hair, she laughs at your jokes, makes funny comments about you... smiles while greeting you...
Author Sun Devil Posted January 25, 2013 Author Posted January 25, 2013 The girl from my class did not respond and the last lab partner is too busy to date. I have not seen any sign of romantic interest since we only met once for a short period of time.
NYC-BigKat Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 This semester, I got a new lab partner. She is both cute and intelligent. I am wondering how do I get her to like me. ShouldI ask her out soon, or wait a while? Anyone who went through a similar experience tell me what to do. Um...there's not much to do u know except just be really nice to her but that might not work 'cause the nicer I was to girls the more they didn't like me so they probably wont like u either if u be so nice to them. Girls are really really hard to work with 'cause their emotions are unbalanced .
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