Do I still have a chance with this girl if I do give her time, or is it done for good

[troywillis12]

I just couldn't give her space. I met this girl from Venezuela a week after she got here and we dated for about 2 months... We never became anything official though, even though we talked about it and i told her I would wait for when she was ready...

 

Anyways, after 2 months she told me she wasn't ready for a relationship and just wanted to make friends, meet people and get herself situated here... Something I understood because I have lived In another country before and understood her situation...

 

Anyways I went no contact, then the day after my birthday like 3 weeks after she told me all of what she said, I broke it and texted her asking how she was... We talked somewhat, then I told her I missed her as a friend and said we should meet up, she said she'd let you know....

 

Then a week later I told her I wanted to cut all contact with her, on accident, and we got into a little convo about that, etc... She told me she didnt understand why I would want that, and that she didnt want to confuse me anymore. She didnt want to have a boyfriend, etc...

 

Then. Week later she accidently texted me and apologized the nxt.day, and said she liked sharing with me and was just giving us time so that we can be good friends, etc... and I kinda just blew her off saying ok... She just laughed and and said whatever you want, if you don't want to talk to me whatever... I just kinda said idk why I allowed my self to get so confused, because we were just fiends with benefits but we talked like we were more and I just confused everything and allows myself to get the way I did...

 

Then yesterday I sent her a long message telling her I didn't mean to say I didn't want to cut contact with here.. Basically I just said I also need time to get situated here, I never really got back into what I had been doing before I spent the summer in Europe and I had started to realize things about myself...

 

I said it would hurt me to lose you as a friend...

 

Her response was just that, it's better the way you think now. I don't want to be confusing you. Sorry I haven't let you know to do something. I have been busy with school as well as with other things.

 

So basically did I just screw all chance of us ever rally being anything more than friends? She had feelings for me, and I'm not going to wait for her but is it most likely done for good

 

If when we do see each other again, is there any chance for me to get her to feel the same feelings she had before for me?

[Ami1uwant]

Does the shoe fit?