martinez0201 Posted August 24, 2004 Posted August 24, 2004 [font=courier new][/font][color=red][/color] hi everyone well i'm in quite a predicament here and i hope some one can stop and give me some advice. For starters im dating a man whos 29 and im 19. My family is still in denial and want me to have nothing to do with him. He's been married and has 3 kids. I have one child from a relationship that didn't work out. My past two relationships have been a disaster and my parents don't trust my ability to find someone good for myself. But my current boyfriend is great and everything i ever wanted. He treats my daughter and me great. We have only been with eachother for almost 9 months, but we have made many plans for eachother. So you're asking your self "then whats your problem?". My problem is that lately our relationship is on the verge of breaking up. Everyone from his family and his ex-wifes family have been telling him things that make him distrust me, things that are not true. So at this point i can't even do a white lie or forget to tell him something because he is starting to believe that i am lying to him and that i am who they all say i am. At this point we have made so much progress in our relationship that i don't want to loose him. I know how much our love means and he knows it too. I know when to let go of a relationship, it is when you don't feel that same attraction, when you feel alone when you're with that person, but we don't feeel that way. When we're with eachother we see how much we do love eachother, how much our love is worth. Right now he is in california on a buisness trip, but i fear that when he comes back it will be over. i hope someone out there can give me so advice or words of encouragement @least. thnx
Anais Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 If he loves you and if he is the right man for you he won’t listen to anyone and will be back to you. You are very young and deserve to meet someone who trust you, value you, and love you as you are. Good luck
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