sparky1983 Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Hi all Long story to be brief Mutual bu about 4 months ago,,she is really upset as am i,she thinks its wrong and we will be back by xmas see her at a party a month later and she is cold with me after texting the classic i miss you earlier in week she wont talk to me at party and then acts like she moved on quickly i STUPIDLY then acted needy and desperate ,texting her etc etc apologising saying id like to meet and get back maybe etc she dosent meet up,,i go nc for 4 weeks,,but i told her i was as i needed to move on ,,,texting back and forth after a month,,i again STUPIDLY say i hoped to get back and miss her and want to be friends eventually as i know she is happier without me xmas comes and she says she wants to meet up,,texts xmas eve,,xmas day,,nye etcetc all her texting me as i was making out ive moved on all instigated by her btw she says it seems like i have a new gf already and that she rememebrs our good times etc and i get prank called a few nights when i know she was out at xmas parties? new year comes and she says wants to stay good friends in 2013 and can we meet,,i say cool we can and then after thinking she wants just friends BAM i get the I DO REALLY MISS YOU X wtf i reply saying yeah,everyone misses the comedy ! as we had soo much fun together and im a fun guy i like to think then a week later she asks to meet at an old place we used to hang and BAM i say that im real busy at the moment with work stuff and ill see her around,,,she replies with just ,ok cool nc for 3 weeks now and im doubting myself,,i needed to regain some power and attraction but fear ive pushed her away as id like to try again and always thought we would get back also should mention it was 3 yr thing,,we lived together,,moved seperaltley but carried on going out until we kinda drifted as we were arguing ALOT this girl has said im her soulmate after we broke and she loves me a week after we broke she is moving in with her two best friends in a month or so we have alot of mutual friends and we were friends before we went out together so my question is am i right in thinkin as we were such great friends and laughed non stop that she JUST wants the freindship again and dosent wamt it to be awkward out with friends and she is going to be partying with friends non stop and she is v stubborn,,v independant and loves going out im in NC to MOVE ON but cant see why she would want to meet so soon and say she misses me an reminisce as surely 4 months is too early for all the friendship stuff confused guy looking to move the hell on and not be on a string
na49 Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 She misses having you around. She misses having you as an option to cry about her new boyfriend. She pretty much wants you as an emotional tampon. She can still love you but not want to date you. When someone says "I miss you" do they ever really mean it? Are they really THAT upset that we are out of their lives? They were the ones who chose to dump us in the first place. So what gives? To answer your question. No. They don't. because they don't think of it as much as we do.
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