Astra5 Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 So I have been dating this guy for what seems like forever... Let me explain. We are always each others go-to when we are single... For the past ten years we have occasionally dated... or went to events together or just hung out as friends.... He is a dear friend first and foremost.... But recently we started dating again... and it became much more serious than previous times... And I will admit.. I have had a major thing for him and I have never truly admitted my feelings.... I have been afraid because I dont want to loose the friendship... and he is a guy who is all about his friends and work and the fun things to do and I am the complete opposite.... So long story short..... I am not sure if in his mind he is making me a priority or an option this time.... He is away on business for several weeks and he is calls when he can and texts everyday.... and he been majorly mushy.. which isnt like him at all.. He has been telling me he wants to be more serious.. he wants to be exclusive and he wants to really make an effort to make our relationship work this time and he thinks I may be the "one"..... And then he gets a free weekend... I have been asking for him to come home and visit me since he left.. which has been a number of weeks may I add... Instead of seeing me he has decided to plan a skiing trip with his buddies.... I know he is busy, and I know he is so far that meeting his friends mid-way is easier then coming all the way back home... but to me this seems like maybe he isnt serious about wanting to be with me??? Am I just an option to him.. or with him being a man and them tending to not think of others feelings besides their own or what their "little guy" feels... I dont feel much like a priority....
sid3 Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 TLDR. Having just skimmed, I'd say you're an option.
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