chief87 Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Hi all, I've been dating a gal for about a month now. Awesome dates, talk about everyday, meet the parents, etc. The past two weekends we were supposed to go out and that fell through. She just graduated college in December and is claiming that she is in a "Quarter life crisis" due to not having a job and being worried about her future. She's been down in the dumps pretty bad and has quit going out with her friends even. I really like this girl a lot and want things to continue, but it seems like I'm doing all the contacting now; I definitely don't want to get under her skin by seeming desperate, but at the same time I want her to know that I care. I'm a little older than this girl and know her 'crisis' wont last too long because I had the same feelings after graduation What would you do? Continue talking to her or giver her space and wait for her to contact me?
sid3 Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Hi all, I've been dating a gal for about a month now. Awesome dates, talk about everyday, meet the parents, etc. The past two weekends we were supposed to go out and that fell through. She just graduated college in December and is claiming that she is in a "Quarter life crisis" due to not having a job and being worried about her future. She's been down in the dumps pretty bad and has quit going out with her friends even. I really like this girl a lot and want things to continue, but it seems like I'm doing all the contacting now; I definitely don't want to get under her skin by seeming desperate, but at the same time I want her to know that I care. I'm a little older than this girl and know her 'crisis' wont last too long because I had the same feelings after graduation What would you do? Continue talking to her or giver her space and wait for her to contact me? Give her space. Her crisis aside, if She was really head over heals for you, I doubt you'd have started this thread. Just saying. 1
Author chief87 Posted January 24, 2013 Author Posted January 24, 2013 Give her space. Her crisis aside, if She was really head over heals for you, I doubt you'd have started this thread. Just saying. No doubt about it, but I do think there's definite potential and sparks between us. That's what I don't want to mess up. Definitely going to give her space though, Thanks.
sid3 Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 No doubt about it, but I do think there's definite potential and sparks between us. That's what I don't want to mess up. Definitely going to give her space though, Thanks. Good luck. Hopefully you can play your cards right.
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