trevjim Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 To save having to explain ill copy a post in someone elses thread i wrote that outlines my story.. I am in the same boat, ex of 2.5 years, we split up due to arguing to much, day later she started seeing another guy (she has low self esteem and hates being alone etc etc) and i dont buy that she is in love with him, although i feel she thinks she is. he is moving in after 2 months and they are going to try for a baby. also she has a son i helped raise who i accepted as my own that i now cant see. Fact is, i thought and still feel she is the one for ME, and because i dont believe the new guy will last, it makes it conflicting for me to move on. But i keep trying and do N/C where possible (need some contact to sort bills etc) but i just cant move on, its been 2 months now and the progress ive made is minimul where as she has a new guy moving in and trying for a baby So initially i was a wreck as expected, then around 5-7 weeks i was doing good, not over her, but alot better and i felt i was moving on, now weeks 7-9 im missing her, thinking about her move, having sexual thoughts about her, really feeling depressed and jelouse that this new guy is living the dream with my 'one' and my 'son'...all the bad things Why have i gone from bad, to better to bad again!?
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