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Let her go cause love, 12years younger, turned 23 and felt it was time for her to go


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Need guidance, I recently cut communication off with a girl who I felt was feeling/asking herself at 23 is this lull life has to offer. We lived together for 2 years, excellent relationship, however towards end we started to become distant. I had a talk with her about where she felt life was taking her. She was confused, unsure, on Christmas we began to argue, my boys were here, I said I felt it best she leave and figure things out. She has been out with friends, we met for coffee, went well, she kissed me when I walked her to her car. She explained she felt like was playing mom, not focused on her, and needed to find herself again. I know we both will move forward and date etc. I really love her know she loves me, how do I handle this, but same time respect her space and be patient

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Sounds like she is ready for a new job or going back to school.

 

And she still wants you (and your family) in her life.

 

Doesn't mean you have to break up.

 

Hugs.

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Funny you say that, she says she is enrolling. I have a year left on masters, helped her other day with resume and financial aid paper work. I am taking very slow, don't want to scare away

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She will probably need your encouragement as she deals with the challenge.

 

In the meantime, try to make friends with people she would find interesting. So your family expands to include socializing with friends together..?.

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