mgirl213 Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 What does it mean when an ex says that he "just can't" get back together with you, not that he doesn't want to? Also, what does it mean when he avoids the question and won't give you an answer when you ask him if his feelings are completely gone for you? This is all after 6 months of being broken up from a 2 year relationship. What do you think my chances are of getting him back, and if so, how should I go about doing it?
Keenly Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 I hate to quote south park at a time like this but "Sometimes you can love a person, and just know that they aren't the right person for you" It's possible that is what he is experiencing. He may love you, but know it would not work out.
thembones Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 If he avoids the question, there are still probably feelings there. If he said "I can't" get back together with you, it could mean he is with someone new, enjoying his single life, upset at you about how/why it ended, or just unable to go through the emotions again. Those are reasons why I would say, "I can't". There could be a lot of reasons and those are just a few examples. Even though he might have some feelings, that doesn't mean he wants to or is able to be together. I have some feelings for my ex, but I don't want to be with her. Take what you learned in the past 6 months and run away. If my ex asked if I'd take her back, I'd said that "I can't". My reason would be because I learned so much about her and the relationship, and that she gave up on me. I couldn't deal with It or ever look at her the same again.
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