lemondropped Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 I tried to be friends with my ex a few months ago. He was always pushing the boundaries between friends and...more than friends...and I'll be honest, I let him do it. He was always insinuating that we should get back together but I was not receptive to it. But, unfortunately, intellectually recognizing something as a bad idea didn't negate my feelings and when I found out that he was trying to get back together with his most recent ex (while still messing around with me) it hurt my feelings and I felt pretty used and stupid, because I wasn't 100% over OUR breakup, let alone okay with the idea that he'd fallen in love (and broke up with) another girl . I told him we'd never see each other again (this was mid-November) and he cried and said he was sorry and that he was in love with both of us and wished he could be in love with both of us and still have me in his life. In my anger...I uh, e-stalked and emailed his ex girlfriend and told her what was up. Not one of my finer moments and I don't think she cared. We have one mutual friend on facebook (she's my friend, not his) and around Christmas she posted some pictures of us. (Because we are friends she has posted several pictures of us, so this isn't a new thing) But on this particular day, my ex "liked" one of them. I looked at his FB that day and saw that a few hours before he had become friends with his ex's parents. (So I suppose one could infer they were getting back together or got back together) I felt annoyed but oh well. And yes I know, no one made me look at his facebook. This past sunday he sent me an email about an account I'd made up during our short stint as "friends" to help him order some clothing with a referral discount. He said he needed to send those pants back because they'd been ruined in the wash and he couldn't get the return box/label (free shipping!) because they were ordered under the account I made. He also said "sorry for bugging you about mundane things. I miss being friends!" So...being me, I look at the FB and see that the night before (not even a whole day had gone by) he'd changed his cover photo on FB to a picture of him and the girl embracing. And she'd changed her cover photo to the same thing. I felt a little weird but not surprised and I guess a few days out I don't actually feel so bad. I guess I'm wondering...is he trying to get under my skin or...were those things just coincidence? There wasn't anything on his FB (at least not that I could see - we aren't friends on FB) that would indicate he was with her or getting back with her except the parents thing and then the cover photo. Maybe I just want to believe he can't be that happy if it's so important for me to see how happy he is. Or maybe the timing of the email was coincidence. And the liking of the photos. Maybe it's just my ego. Or maybe he is just an ******* and wanted to rub in my face that he got back together with that girl even though I emailed her in my anger hoping she'd tell him to go to hell like I did.
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