kaylan Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Face or body? Personally Id rather have a girl have an amazing body, and an ok face. Because a fit, tight sexy body turns me on a lot more than a pretty face. Plus if the girl has a personality I love, Ill find her face super adorable anyways. But lets leave personality out of it. Physically, would you rather the face or body we better, if you had to pick one?
MrCastle Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 I'm not a lady, but may I interject? I think having a solid one or the other can help your chances. A guy like me, short and skinny, has to have an edge. I think my face, if we're talking physical, is what women are attracted to. I don't think they see my 145 lb ass and say "mmm, come to mama". I've also seen a lot of big, buff, jock type dudes with girls way out of their league facially. I assume those women care more about the height, chest and arms. For me, face is most important. I saw some girls in class today. One was what you would call a "whooty", a lower half I'd kill my best friend for. But then there was another girl who had a model face but no curves at all. Now, I've said many times, I am the resident ass man/leg man on this forum, but this girl's face was spectacular, to the point I said to myself, if I had to pick one, I'd pick her. Her body is cute for a girl like her. I prefer curvy chicks, but I'm gonna be looking at her face a lot more often than I am her body. Face counts more to me. I don't know how guys can date a butterface. More power to you for the guys that do. I'll take the cute faced chicks
SER Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 For me, face. I will be looking at his face all the time - be it dinner, sex, hanging out... His body doesn't have to be all that, I'm not going to look at his body when talking to him, I'll be looking into his eyes... on his face. So, as long as he has some scruff and a nice face to admire. Strictly physically speaking. 1
Pyro Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Face or body? Personally Id rather have a girl have an amazing body, and an ok face. Because a fit, tight sexy body turns me on a lot more than a pretty face. Plus if the girl has a personality I love, Ill find her face super adorable anyways. I'd prefer the face. The body can exercise and improve whereas the face can only be covered with make-up. 2
sweetkiwi Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Oh shoot well I guess Id lose at your game because my face is beautiful but maybe not my body. Kaylan really?? You cant work out to fix a beat up face.... I know plenty of "butherfaces". With hot bodies. For me I couldn't get past the fhucked up grill. But if you cam more power to ya. It takes genuine genetic luck to be beautiful in the face. That being said I dont care much about who is attractive. Only unless he's attractive to ME. And even that has more to do with his aura and essence then his facial construct. Men have it easier like that. You can be bald and ugly and STILL get a hot lady. Women.......not so much.
mesmerized Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Body for sure. Face, as long as it's ok/decent looking I'm fine with it. If a guy has a gorgeous face but very skinny or out of shape body....yeah it still doesn't do it for me sexually. 2
MrCastle Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Men have it easier like that. You can be bald and ugly and STILL get a hot lady. Women.......not so much. Women let that happen. They decided "ok, we'll date guys 20 years older than us who are out of shape." Just like men decided "ok, we'll date girls who flake, suck at responding to texts, and overall are incredibly impossible to depend on". People only do what they're able to get away with. Men create the market value for women, and women for men. It's not our fault you girls fall for who you do. And vice versa. 1
monicaelise Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 I'd prefer the face. The body can exercise and improve whereas the face can only be covered with make-up. This. And at my age, unless I'm chasing the younguns, the odds of finding a good face are higher than that of finding a truly good body. Contrary to popular belief, men tend to let themselves go even more rapidly and obviously than women once you hit a certain stage in life. 2
KungFuJoe Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 I think the vast majority of people would pick face. You can improve a body...face...not so much. Unless you use make up. But we know how kaylan feels about that....... 1
todreaminblue Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Face or body? Personally Id rather have a girl have an amazing body, and an ok face. Because a fit, tight sexy body turns me on a lot more than a pretty face. Plus if the girl has a personality I love, Ill find her face super adorable anyways. But lets leave personality out of it. Physically, would you rather the face or body we better, if you had to pick one? I am attracted to voice inflections eyes and smiles, then i notice other things, it all starts from that though, and i don't have stock standard likes or dislikes.....because of what i am attracted to, I tend to notice voices first, and i cant define why......i do notice other things after, more every time i see them, and its all good....i have been attracted to guys who have struggled a little with english......it is something in the tonal quality, there is always a calmness about the voice, that tells me that guy has core strength and it melts a wall or two i have....dreamy..most of those guys have been physically fit so dont know if that is an unconscious thing.......deb
MrCastle Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 You can improve a body...face...not so much. Unless you use make up. But we know how kaylan feels about that....... He likes wearing it?! 1
mesmerized Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Women let that happen. They decided "ok, we'll date guys 20 years older than us who are out of shape." Just like men decided "ok, we'll date girls who flake, suck at responding to texts, and overall are incredibly impossible to depend on". People only do what they're able to get away with. Men create the market value for women, and women for men. It's not our fault you girls fall for who you do. And vice versa. True. It's not always because they fall for these men...but more often that they find these men safe and less likely to cheat and/or just more likely to put up with their crap.
edgygirl Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Face! And the answer might change depending on what one considers an amazing body. For me it is not a toned one. I've been with guys with really hot buff toned bodies in my 20s and my conclusion is I couldn't care less about it. I do like big guys though even if they're in the chubby side, think rugby players. But nothing beats a face that makes my heart melt.
charlietheginger Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 i just asked my girlfriend... Her response " the body has to be appealing enough to get Closer to the man to see his face, if he waddles Around with a belly and double chin it aint happening If he has a nice body and you get close his face is ugly It aint happening ether. He's gotta have a nice face and a nice Body. No supermodel but nice " So my take is a body gets the first acknowledgement From a distance face is then noticed upclose 1
FitChick Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 A man's body is more indicative of health. Must be slim and toned, not necessarily buff. I am not a fan of men with pretty faces.
MrCastle Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 I am not a fan of men with pretty faces. Well that sucks I was telling my friend, if I was gay, I'd probably be considered a "twink" I wonder how good I'd do if I was gay. I'd probably be killing it.
Author kaylan Posted January 24, 2013 Author Posted January 24, 2013 Oh shoot well I guess Id lose at your game because my face is beautiful but maybe not my body. Kaylan really?? You cant work out to fix a beat up face.... I know plenty of "butherfaces". With hot bodies. For me I couldn't get past the fhucked up grill. But if you cam more power to ya. It takes genuine genetic luck to be beautiful in the face. That being said I dont care much about who is attractive. Only unless he's attractive to ME. And even that has more to do with his aura and essence then his facial construct. Men have it easier like that. You can be bald and ugly and STILL get a hot lady. Women.......not so much.Id say ugly people are rare. So are really bad teeth. Id say most folks have at least decent teeth. And I dunno about bald and ugly guys getting hot chicks. Maybe the rich ones lol. I mean, I dunno....maybe Im less average than I thought, or maybe I dont make enough effort in dating...but sometimes I have some serious slow periods with women. And hell, the women who turn me down at times have me really wondering where my own ranking stands...because Ive gotten some sexy women in my day...so at the moment I am puzzled. But really I think Im just not putting myself out there enough.
todreaminblue Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Well that sucks I was telling my friend, if I was gay, I'd probably be considered a "twink" I wonder how good I'd do if I was gay. I'd probably be killing it. whats a twink? 1
SmileFace Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Whole body. It is more about the packege. Ok, I am lying. Body it is. Which doesn't mean a guy has to fall into a hot/stud body. 1
Author kaylan Posted January 24, 2013 Author Posted January 24, 2013 I think the vast majority of people would pick face. You can improve a body...face...not so much. Unless you use make up. But we know how kaylan feels about that....... Its a shame that most Americans dont fix their body. So I dunno just how fixable a poor lifestyle is. Habits die hard.
monicaelise Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Id say ugly people are rare. So are really bad teeth. Id say most folks have at least decent teeth. And I dunno about bald and ugly guys getting hot chicks. Maybe the rich ones lol. I mean, I dunno....maybe Im less average than I thought, or maybe I dont make enough effort in dating...but sometimes I have some serious slow periods with women. And hell, the women who turn me down at times have me really wondering where my own ranking stands...because Ive gotten some sexy women in my day...so at the moment I am puzzled. But really I think Im just not putting myself out there enough. You haven't spent a lot of time outside of the US, have you? 1
MrCastle Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 whats a twink? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Twink_(gay_slang)
KungFuJoe Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Well that sucks I was telling my friend, if I was gay, I'd probably be considered a "twink" I wonder how good I'd do if I was gay. I'd probably be killing it. **** dude...if the trips I've made to gay clubs in west la are any indication...I KNOW I'd be killin it. 1
todreaminblue Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Twink_(gay_slang) The term's namesake is the "golden-colored phallic-shaped snack cake" so you are a cake......well thats edible.......i now know what twink means thanks for that......i have a new of the day..... phallic shaped cake........... 1
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