egalew Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 This morning I was listening to the relationship "guru" (Rori Raye) talk about what a man tells tells you his former girlfriend should be perceived. As she pointed out, no matter how bad he paints the woman/girlfriend, you have to realize he choose that and it because he wanted that she was able to hook him. My exMM had a really mommy / son relationship with his wife. She pretty much ran the ship and he was always being "reprimanded." At the time, I felt sorry for him. However, I see how he deliberatley sought this and perpetuated it in his relaitonship because, in essence, he didn't want to grow up. He was a boy still in his late 50s. 2
MissBee Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 I believe that too, hence, I can't understand the constant bashing I hear of by some MM. Maybe if one was bashing after one was divorced and moved on...fine...but those MM still married and bashing their wives...it's poor taste. This person may be horrible and that is their own issue...but what about YOU...you chose to take up with this horrible person, so you may be an idiot. 2
Author egalew Posted January 24, 2013 Author Posted January 24, 2013 I really over think this stuff, if you can't tell by most posts. But I often wondered if my exMM, though he seemed in awe of strong women and gentleman like, deep down hated women. I suspect this of other cheats. No proof. Just a guess. 1
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