marie1990 Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 So my bf of almost a year asked me if we could have a threesome. Now, if I was single and not in a relationship, I would jump all over having a threesome. But if I'm in a relationship, I'm gonna be faithful to that person. I would not want another chick touching my man. When I told him that I would not be into it, he says, "But babe, I can find someone you would get hot and heavy over." Two thoughts crossed my mind... 1) So he must already have someone in mind that he wants to f***, oh hell no!! 2) I like that he is sharing his fantasies with me. I'm stuck because I feel like I should be mad about this, but then the other half of me says to leave it alone that it was just an idea of his. I just think that it's too early in our relationship to start getting that freaky I think I'm freaky enough right now 1
Saphira Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Well if it is something you are into then go for it. If you dont want to do it then make it clear and leave it at that. For me i cant do it because i am territorial when i am in a relationship. I feel that if you are my man, you are mine alone. I could not see another woman all up on my man. Have you asked him how he would feel having a threesome with another man and seeing another man touch all over you? Plus for me i would always have in the back of my mind "is he enjoying her more then me???" lol 1
Keenly Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Before any girls get here first over reacting and telling you to break up with him, do not take this too seriously. Every dude fantasizes about doing this at least once in their lifetime, and while he may have brought this up in probably not the most ideal way, he is just asking. You never know right? Sounds like he trusts you enough to just blurt that out, most likely half jokingly testing the waters. No, he doesn't have anyone in mind, he is merely curious. I completely understand you not wanting to see some one else's hands on your boyfriend. I would be the same way with a girl I was dating. Just stand your ground and say "yeaaaaah, I don't think that's going to happen. " But please don't freak out on him. =( 1
sweetkiwi Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Okay he's obviously an idiot. This is not something he should be saying unless you BOTH have expressed a desire to "do".... I am not going to tell you to dump him but IMO and IME men like this do not respect their ladies..... I would lose this fool faster than a used up tissue...
Els Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Based on all of the other stuff I have read about your R, I think it's heading in the entirely wrong direction. 1
Author marie1990 Posted January 24, 2013 Author Posted January 24, 2013 I think it's good that he wanted to tell me his fantacy, but I didn't like how he kept asking to do it. He has stopped asking now. I mentioned to him that I would rather bring porn into the equation first then an actual person
MyPoutine Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Lol would he be as Gung Ho if the extra person was a guy? Or it was a Foursome with a girl and guy? 1
Author marie1990 Posted January 25, 2013 Author Posted January 25, 2013 Lol would he be as Gung Ho if the extra person was a guy? Or it was a Foursome with a girl and guy? I did ask him what if the third person were a guy, he got a little bit of an attitude and said it would be up to me. Whatever that meant but I wouldn't want to have sex with another guy. I'm commited to him and only him.
MrCastle Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 Now, if I was single and not in a relationship, I would jump all over having a threesome. Why are girls like this never single 1
Treasa Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 Why are girls like this never single I love threesomes and I was single until a week or two ago. Where were you? LOL I've had threesomes with two guys, but I'd really want one with another girl now.
Divasu Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 I realize this may be every man's fantasy. Fantasy is one thing, reality is another. If you're both open to it, go for it. I would not, but, I'm not dating your boyfriend.
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