shaddo Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 I re-connected with my childhood friend recently. We were buds pretty much from birth all the way up to 11 when my parents moved me away. I remember hearing stories of this girl fighting with another of our friends over me and how she was my girlfriend and all that kid stuff. Anyway we have been out of contact for 15 years and we agreed to meet a few days ago. She walked around in the bitter cold with me, even tho she told me she hated the cold but would bare it. She talked for 3 hours straight. She asked me like 3 questions and I couldn't get a word in. I may have talked 5 min over the 3 hour visit. She is going through a divorce. 6 months ago her husband left her and the kids. She has no intention of getting back with him. As I was leaving I told her I would love to hang out again and hit me up anytime. She said when she wasn't busy and got bored she would. So I am wondering if I could possibly have a chance with her? I went to meet her thinking I would not have any interest in her but turns out I do. Btw she wouldn't look at me when she was talking not even in her kitchen. She would gaze out the window and such. Maybe cause she was nervous? Mostly what she talked about was her ex husband and how bad he was. I am really bad at reading girls. I guess they confuse me. Any insight would be helpful and appreciated.
will1988 Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 I re-connected with my childhood friend recently. We were buds pretty much from birth all the way up to 11 when my parents moved me away. I remember hearing stories of this girl fighting with another of our friends over me and how she was my girlfriend and all that kid stuff. Anyway we have been out of contact for 15 years and we agreed to meet a few days ago. She walked around in the bitter cold with me, even tho she told me she hated the cold but would bare it. She talked for 3 hours straight. She asked me like 3 questions and I couldn't get a word in. I may have talked 5 min over the 3 hour visit. She is going through a divorce. 6 months ago her husband left her and the kids. She has no intention of getting back with him. As I was leaving I told her I would love to hang out again and hit me up anytime. She said when she wasn't busy and got bored she would. So I am wondering if I could possibly have a chance with her? I went to meet her thinking I would not have any interest in her but turns out I do. Btw she wouldn't look at me when she was talking not even in her kitchen. She would gaze out the window and such. Maybe cause she was nervous? Mostly what she talked about was her ex husband and how bad he was. I am really bad at reading girls. I guess they confuse me. Any insight would be helpful and appreciated. To met it sounds like she is hiding something. Generally women when they are interested can't take their eyes off of you. Even the shy/coy ones. I'd say you got a chance, but just be her friend for now until the divorce settles down.
Treasa Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 I re-connected with my childhood friend recently. We were buds pretty much from birth all the way up to 11 when my parents moved me away. I remember hearing stories of this girl fighting with another of our friends over me and how she was my girlfriend and all that kid stuff. Anyway we have been out of contact for 15 years and we agreed to meet a few days ago. She walked around in the bitter cold with me, even tho she told me she hated the cold but would bare it. She talked for 3 hours straight. She asked me like 3 questions and I couldn't get a word in. I may have talked 5 min over the 3 hour visit. She is going through a divorce. 6 months ago her husband left her and the kids. She has no intention of getting back with him. As I was leaving I told her I would love to hang out again and hit me up anytime. She said when she wasn't busy and got bored she would. So I am wondering if I could possibly have a chance with her? I went to meet her thinking I would not have any interest in her but turns out I do. Btw she wouldn't look at me when she was talking not even in her kitchen. She would gaze out the window and such. Maybe cause she was nervous? Mostly what she talked about was her ex husband and how bad he was. I am really bad at reading girls. I guess they confuse me. Any insight would be helpful and appreciated. Uh, yeah, next.
Astra5 Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 When she NOT BUSY AND GOT BORED? Really?? I say BYE BYE lady!! Not worth your time she is obviously not interested beyond a friend to vent to and hang with when she has nothing better to do.... NEXT!! 2
Author shaddo Posted January 25, 2013 Author Posted January 25, 2013 You know I was thinking the same thing just wanted someone from the outside looking in to input.....guess I will be that "guy" again lol
will1988 Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 You know I was thinking the same thing just wanted someone from the outside looking in to input.....guess I will be that "guy" again lol Well if you play your cards right though she may come running into your arms since you are there for her!
Treasa Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 Well if you play your cards right though she may come running into your arms since you are there for her! Yeah, awesome, then he's her security blanket. Nope, I still say next.
Author shaddo Posted January 26, 2013 Author Posted January 26, 2013 Yeah I will probably just keep it in the friend zone. I know she is going through a lot right now with her soon to be ex. and she probably doesn't want a relationship right now anyway. I honestly don't want to be a "rebound" either. She hasn't called me or even hit me up on facebook unless I initiate contact. That right there IMO is a sign.
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