thefooloftheyear Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 Just seems like it never happens. Unless people never report of them here, but are there ever cases where there is a real chance at getting back to where they once were in the relationship and go on to "live happily ever after"? Love to hear from both a dumper and dumpee perspective. TFOY
first love Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Might not mean much, but I recently got back with my ex. We we broken up for about month and a half, NC for a majority of that. We've only been back together for a little over a week, but things are going well thus far. Taking it slow, and being careful with my heart. Sometimes they work out in your favor, sometimes they don't.
klw1905 Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 I found myself on this site back in August broken hearted trying to cope. My second chance has been going strong now for about 4 months. 2
blue_jay_bird Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 My brother broke up with his wife 3 times before they got married. They have a pretty baby boy now. But it's all situation. And I saw the dumper (my brother) he looked truly heart broken after every break-up. I really don't know what made him go back but. I remember him saying " I just don't want another failed relationship" So, i guess it came to the point where he decided to work on things. But it looks like she caught him at the right time in his life. Anyways. Don't wait.
OJ loved Nicole Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 It can happen, it happened to me. However, waiting or hoping for a second chance is a complete waste of your life. You can't control them coming back, and you can't put your life on hold for someone who doesn't want to be with you. When mine left I decided day 1 to move on (even though I wanted her back badly). I forced myself to grieve, I started going on dates, I never initiated contact. They'll come back If THEY decide to, 100% out of your control. Read the "Getting your ex back" link in my signature.
Babolat Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 Current GF and I have taken a break 2 times. First time there was no time set on it, which was tough. Second time we agreed to a week. It has helped us as sometimes you get wrapped up, obsessed if you will with whatever the issue or issues are. It's important to talk though when you get back together.
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