ascendotum Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Yeah, I never had a chance to date those types of guys. If I ever do, I would feel lucky he's considering me. The guys on the other BB forum weren't too hard on you. Unfortunately 1/2 of us have to be on the left side of the bell curve for attractiveness, but no one wants to be considered average these days. We all want to be hot looking MFs. I can't imagine you would have too much trouble though finding a decent looking guy, seriously. If you want to land a handsome looking European man, well then you are going to be less happy about yourself while waiting, especially if they are sort after by the other Peruvian girls. In other parts of the world you would be exotic and more sort after by many guys.
unluckyinlove4 Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Honestly, all of these things are inconsequential. Sure, you COULD look better to some people if you did xyz, but to others you're a knockout. People tell me I'm pretty all the time, but I know for a fact there are some guys that say I'm just not their type. What some randoms think on a forum isn't really a big deal. Besides, attraction and relationships are about more than merely looks. If your relationship is simply about looks, then get out of it! For what it's worth, I do think you're cute, but I'm not a huge fan of your clothing choices....but your clothing is how you express yourself. You may not be a huge fan of mine!
Curious-One Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 While i will admit that many guys do put a lot of emphasis on looks not all of them do. Also the ones that do are usually not great guys (personality wise) Me for example, i care alot more about personality. I love girls that are ambitious and are hard workers. Often times i find my self attracted to the geeky/shy type of girl in college but unfortionatly every time i try to talk to them they dont seem to interested. Maybe its because i am tall 6'3 and i intimidate them lol. Also despite the fact that i do like geeky shy girls i do hate girls that are insecure so please stop worrying about your looks. Pick up hobbies , work on yourself, and you will run into guys with similar hobbies that will not care about your average looks.
xxoo Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Samsung, most people here are average. Do you really believe you need to be more attractive than most people here to find love? To be highly desired by your partner? It's simple: you and an average guy fall in love and think each other are hot stuff. Happens all the time. When he tells you that you are beautiful, say "Thank you." 2
Curious-One Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 I just saw your pictures, i wish you had put them in the original post. Anyway i would say that your outfit is horrible in both pictures. Those pants/jeans those sneakers dont match at all. Like those sneakers should be used in the gym with sweat pants or something. I am not digging the shirt either. Right now as you are i would rate you 5.5-6/10. You definitely have the potential to go up to 7-8. Having said that i would have no problem dating you as you are now if you had the qualities i mentioned in my previous post. GL to you.
silvermercy Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 I can see why people give an average of around 6... You can go at least 2 points higher if you do the following! - change haircut and/or hair colour. (Please don't pull your hair back like that. Many times it's unflattering, even in supermodels!) - reshape your eyebrows asap. The arch is just not right... Let them grow, use a pencil or opt for semi-permanent make-up. - posture looks very awkward - smile looks forced - clothes are casual and, thus, average. No wonder you got 6. You could have gone much higher if you changed all the above!!
MyPoutine Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 (edited) Never be with someone who finds you "just okay" it will hurt your self-esteem, unless the guy is very insecure and needs a trophy-gf a guy who loves you will find you hot regardless of what other people think. 5/6 isn't bad after all most people are average-looking... If you are dressing frumpy then you won't look your best, that's not to say you have to be 100% dolled up but casual wear can still be nice Just saw your pictures and I like the first one but think you should change the bottom part of the second picture. You have a rectangular body-shape and in the second picture the sneakers and skinny's with that top emphasize it, bootcut jeans with ankle boots would work much better. Your face looks fine, nice smile, youthful looking face, luscious hair...you are a good-looking girl, nothing to worry about. Edited January 24, 2013 by MyPoutine
Treasa Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Admittedly I only read the first page, but why are you letting others define you? Who the hell cares what others think of how you look? I think I'm very attractive. Those who don't are welcome to their opinions, but I'm not going to let it sway mine. I did look at your pictures. When taking pictures, relax your brow and face, smile genuinely or softly, and don't stand in a certain pose.
Brightwind Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Confidence is the most attractive thing. If you think you're unattractive, so will everybody else. You have nice features, a healthy body, and most importantly a brain! But here's the thing, too. Looks, no matter how hot you are, will fade. Then what's left is all the other stuff. That's the stuff that really matters. I can totally empathize with how hard it can be to feel unattractive, but maybe what you need to do is start putting yourself in positions where you'll feel more attractive. What are the things you like to do the very most? Do them, feel happy, and you will look prettier because you're happy. All the advice I read about hairstyles and makeup and different clothes also stands totally true, because putting positive attention on yourself can only improve your self-esteem. Don't look in the mirror and find the things to hate. Look in the mirror and find the things you love and empasize them. Oh, and quantifying people's looks with numbers is just a stupid form of standardization. People aren't meant to be standardized. It's lame. Good luck
Negative Nancy Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 I think what OP wants is a guy who think shes beautiful and hot. Not some lame idiot like her ex who think shes merely ok looking and good enough. Screw that guy. Find a man who thinks your wonderful in all facets. She my exes werent 10s to everyone, but when I was in love with them, all women were transparent to me. They were the most pretty girls in my eyes and got me harder than steel. I think that's what pretty much every woman wants.
fortyninethousand322 Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 I think that's what pretty much every woman wants. Every woman? Doubt it. Some women? I could buy that.
somedude81 Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Eh, wanting your guy to think you're beautiful and hot, and reassure you that you are, sounds like low self-esteem to me.
Radu Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Just to get an idea of what I look like on my recent pictures, here goes: http://imagecdn.bodybuilding.com/img/user_images/growable/2013/01/20/43330002/progresspic/PwmGmXWSQbtfftXNaEYLceAoYrGYEbNdzSJj.jpg http://imagecdn.bodybuilding.com/img/user_images/growable/2013/01/21/43330002/progresspic/BDpmiCilUvttsseNkiWqOpCttisdKUGeHhub.jpg You are wrong about your rating. First of all understand it is subjective. Meaning that it's just physical and it's physical that the guy sees then and there. I could easily make 2-3 suggestions that would make you even more attractive in pictures and would improve your 'rating', but would that change you or your perception of yourself ? You look good. And the bodybuilding forum is of men focused on developing a good looking physique. That's who is doing the rating, guys obsessed with abs.
MrNate 2.0 Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 After looking at your pics.... it isn't so much your physical looks, but the way you present them. Poor posture, and I honestly feel like your wardrobe could use an update. You have potential deary, just need to live up to it. I like this chick. Honestly, I was feelin these pictures until I got down to the clothes. Show off more of your feminine side.
ChatroomHero Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Everyone is different. If someone finds you to be a 7 or 8, you are a 7 or 8 to them. What I find interesting is how you point out that some people rated you as a 7/8 and you discount them but accept someone rating you less as being more honest. If you think being a 7/8 means everyone agrees you are a 7/8 across the board you'll be disappointed. I'll give you an example, Scarlett Johannsen to me is a soft 5 and reminds me of B-tier girl from high school. Do you think if she knew she would be sitting there thinking, "Some a*hole thinks I am a 5 so apparently I am a 5?". By your logic Scarlett Johanssen is a soft 5 and you are hotter than her so that's something.
SmileFace Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 Everyone is different. If someone finds you to be a 7 or 8, you are a 7 or 8 to them. What I find interesting is how you point out that some people rated you as a 7/8 and you discount them but accept someone rating you less as being more honest. If you think being a 7/8 means everyone agrees you are a 7/8 across the board you'll be disappointed. I'll give you an example, Scarlett Johannsen to me is a soft 5 and reminds me of B-tier girl from high school. Do you think if she knew she would be sitting there thinking, "Some a*hole thinks I am a 5 so apparently I am a 5?". By your logic Scarlett Johanssen is a soft 5 and you are hotter than her so that's something. Have you lost your mind?haha... you got it there op.. everyone will see you differently.
Mtlgrrl Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 You look pretty, I don't see what you're talking about. Maybe dress more feminine and flat iron your hair maybe? You're wearing sport-ish kind of clothes on those pictures - nothing wrong with that! Hair makes such a big difference, maybe trying a new hairstyle! Regardless you look great!
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