Author Keenly Posted February 1, 2013 Author Posted February 1, 2013 Keen I'm sorry to hear about your date. Even more so about the car situation. When you say not on the same page mentally, what do you mean specifically? She's immature? Immature. 23 with a minimum wage job, normally not a problem ex pet she keeps quitting jobs because according to her she doesn't like them. She's never been to any kind of college, and she went on for quite a while describing one of her many acid trips. I'm also not fond of her mannerisms nor the way she speaks. The car was just something that really pissed me off and I will not be following up with her. 1
Author Keenly Posted February 1, 2013 Author Posted February 1, 2013 Dude chill the **** out. Your life and happiness level does not depend on whether you meet a cool chick or not. Cheers, Actually, it really does. Thanks.
superb Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Immature. 23 with a minimum wage job, normally not a problem ex pet she keeps quitting jobs because according to her she doesn't like them. She's never been to any kind of college, and she went on for quite a while describing one of her many acid trips. I'm also not fond of her mannerisms nor the way she speaks. The car was just something that really pissed me off and I will not be following up with her. Good for you! Don't settle! Sorry bout the car.
NothingButAGlance Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Dude, pull yourself together. I noticed your youtube channel and remember seeing you on some other site asking people to rate you or what not. Look, no one cares about you and you can only do what is good for yourself. Please dont take it the wrong way but the sooner you realize that you are solely responsible for your happiness your point-of-view will change. Until you can be perfectly happy with yourself, you cant expect someone to be perfectly happy with someone so insecure like you? would you want to date a girl that has this low self esteem. Girls can read your "sappiness" from a mile away and aren't going to go anywhere near you. Ever notice how perfectly ugly guys can attract beautiful women? confidence and a personality. You said you hate going to the gym but all you are doing is complaining about yourself. Better yourself while your single. You are setting yourself up for marrying the first chick that gives you attention and its going to turn you into a very insecure/clingy male. Trust me, go to the gym, get some abs, or whatever. There is a reason they say working out makes you gain confidence. It's true. You need something to pull you out of this rut.
Talak7 Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Dude chill the **** out. Your life and happiness level does not depend on whether you meet a cool chick or not. Cheers, Actually, it really does. Thanks. Actually, it really does. Thanks. What man judges his self worth by the existence of a woman? Maybe if you weren't such a co-dependent whiny prat and focused instead on hobbies, interests, goals, and things you like, or developing a career like you should be at 23, you could get with some girls of similar caliber 1
HitMeNow Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 What man judges his self worth by the existence of a woman? Maybe if you weren't such a co-dependent whiny prat and focused instead on hobbies, interests, goals, and things you like, or developing a career like you should be at 23, you could get with some girls of similar caliber THIS Success with women hit me when I never expected it and was doing my own life and my own thing. "Crushing" on a girl I was sleeping with, hit me when I least expected. Point is, you can't plan out who is going to be in your life and who isnt. You do your thing and people can choose to follow or leave you alone. Think about this. Nobody knows why the **** they are in this world. Everyone is as clueless as you. So it's up to you to find out why YOU are here. What are your values. What do you find cool. What kind of people do you appreciate in your life, what lifestyle do you want and ultimately what will make you happy. After you have the questions to all these answers, come back here and post success stories of girls (and guys) wanting to follow you.... because let's be serious, it's a lot easier to follow than to lead. Lastly don't forget that everyone follows happiness... So find what makes you happy and other people will notice and will gladly follow you. Cheers and GL. 2
normal person Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Immature. 23 with a minimum wage job, normally not a problem ex pet she keeps quitting jobs because according to her she doesn't like them. She's never been to any kind of college, and she went on for quite a while describing one of her many acid trips. I'm also not fond of her mannerisms nor the way she speaks. The car was just something that really pissed me off and I will not be following up with her. It's fine if you don't like her, but... I reiterate. I'm finished. I am going to be a robot from this moment on, as this emotional **** is not really working out. This part seems an overreaction. You meet one person who isn't your type and you throw a fit? How much emotional investment did you put in this stranger you barely know? It seems like entirely too much. This seems immature to me, no offense. Maybe you'd benefit from toning it down a little, you won't click with most girls on this planet. The sooner you accept that, the easier it will be for you. Most people have to wade through a lot potential partners before they find the right one. I wouldn't expect it to be any different for you. You're working yourself up unnecessarily. Actually, it really does. Thanks. It shouldn't. If you live above the poverty line, aren't starving to death or anything like that, you've got plenty to happy about. Finding a great girl would be cool, but you can't consider it a necessity when it's really a luxury. In fact, your insistence that you need to be with someone to be happy and the stock you put in your failures/successes gives you a tinge of desperation, which is an unattractive quality in my opinion. If you learned not to be so dramatic and not to live and die with every interaction you have with a girl, I think you will be happier in general and have more success.
outsidethebox Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Man, OP, you are 420 friendly and your date is talking about her acid trips and you don't want any part of that. Whoa, dude, you need to listen to some 60's songs and love the one you're with for awhile. You don't need to marry the first girl you make out with. I looked at your profile here. I don't know what the deal is with profiles here, I'm new and there doesn't seem to be much to them, but it may be just me, but in any event the only I saw was gender: rather not say. In where you are, you'd better be willing to say, and speak up. Who knows what people are there. I would lose the Amish looking neck beard thing and go for a Vince Vaughn look. That includes maybe a little of the kinds of clothes and mannerisms you might pick up from a couple of his movies. Relax. Get funnier. The only song I knew from your videos was House of the Rising Sun, which you do a good job on, although the Spanish flamenca riff in the middle there is different to say the least. I agree with earlier poster. Try some Neil Young songs from 60's and include a harmonica around neck. Play forlorn love songs. Sit on a corner and put a hat out with a note on it "phone numbers (girls only)". Play 8 hours where you have opportunity to banter with people. I would forget trying for the paying gigs. There's lots and lots of talent out there and you're not quite there yet. I wiish I was speaking from experience, but if a chick is telling you about her acid trips it means she has a ready made excuse for anything she does, so do it for godssakes.
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