cottom Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 Ive been NC for 2 weeks now, after breaking up a month ago. She also has a lot of my stuff at her apartment that i need back that i kept for when i stopped over... i want to send her a email such as; "Hey whatsupp, hows your new uni courses going? I thought id let you know I had my last relationship counselling session last monday and I finished my pills on friday, had a drs appointment friday to see if ive improved and I have to go back next friday to see if im still getting better or I need another months supply of tablets , all in all im a better more mature person and im just seeing how yur gettin on with yur life now xxx" Shes the type that when your with her yor perfect together but the longer your apart and not talking she convinces herself you are awful and not meant for each other, so NC would not work for a reunion with this girl.
Gingerxr2 Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 Ive been NC for 2 weeks now, after breaking up a month ago. She also has a lot of my stuff at her apartment that i need back that i kept for when i stopped over... i want to send her a email such as; "Hey whatsupp, hows your new uni courses going? I thought id let you know I had my last relationship counselling session last monday and I finished my pills on friday, had a drs appointment friday to see if ive improved and I have to go back next friday to see if im still getting better or I need another months supply of tablets , all in all im a better more mature person and im just seeing how yur gettin on with yur life now xxx" Shes the type that when your with her yor perfect together but the longer your apart and not talking she convinces herself you are awful and not meant for each other, so NC would not work for a reunion with this girl. Don't send it , your giving her to much information , she will think she's won by making you Ill , or atleast that my ex did and then told her friends and parents I was mental , for having a break down ! If you both still want to be together then stay true to the facts , if not just set a date to collect your stuff , then stay NC
bitterruin Posted January 24, 2013 Posted January 24, 2013 NC isn't to win her back. If that's what you're using it for you're going to be very disappointed. There's really nothing you can do to make her come back to you if she doesn't want to be with you. And certainly sending her that message isn't going to make her think you've changed. The only way to show her you're a better mature person is by leaving her alone. If you want your things back let her know and send a friend to get them for you.
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