billybob223 Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 Ok i told this girl i like her but she told me she does not like me over text and that's fine but i asked her to tag along with me over text so she called me and said lets go today but i told her no another time because its to cold but i will be talking to other women trying to get there numbers not to make her jealous or anything but just to have an attractive girl with me to better my chances but i just want to make sure she wont feel awkward while im trying to pick up other women
ascendotum Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 This is not a bad strategy and it can work out just like you envisage. It would really help though if the girl was in on the picture or a pretty good friend of yours who was prepared to hang out along side you and look to be having a good time with you. If she is not interested in you, she might not care if you chat up other girls. She might get jealous herself and see you in a different light which would be ideal or she might get annoyed at you inviting her out and not giving you her attention and walk or cock block you with the other girls. She might be distracted away by guys hitting on her and you lose out on her halo effect and get to see her (who you fancy) getting mushy over a guy in front of you. Really though the downsides are not that bad given the potential upside of having a pretty female friend validate you for other girls when you chat them up. If you don't want to make her feel awkward, then you have to give her attention as well and bring her in on your conversations with the other girls. You have to convey that you are there to have a good time with her and anyone else you meet and that she's not a prop who's forgotten once you start getting attention from another girl.
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