penelopefitz Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 I started dating my boyfriend back in November. We met in class, and so far we've been having a great time together. December especially was the best, I went over to his place a lot and spent the night. I was introduced to his friends and family, and even spent Christmas day with him! (I just moved to a new state and had no family to see on Christmas). A few weeks ago we went to his friend's house and watched a movie, and I still see him and such.. I don't know, I suddenly got this gut feeling that something was going to happen, like maybe he's going to break up with me. His texts aren't the same. He still texts full sentences and such, but in the beginning of our relationship, he would text "Good night, baby!" or "Good night, beautiful!" Now, he'll say just 'good night', 'have a good night!' etc. He works 10 hour days Tuesday - Saturday, so he's usually tired when he comes home. He made dinner for me the other night, and usually I sleep over, but he sent me home! I didn't argue or anything, but I just felt weird. Lately, I've been the one initiating the conversations over texts, and we'll text for a while, but I just feel weird. I really like him, and I thought he did too. I think he still does... Am I just crazy and paranoid? This is my first real boyfriend (I'm 20), so this is all new to me. After two months of telling me he was happy and he really liked me, could he really be bored or something?
TigerCub Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 You mentioned that nice things he does for you - Including you during Xmas, cooking you dinners, etc.. What have you done for him? I mean, maybe he's hoping you would do sweet things for him to show him that YOU care and that he's appreciated. That would be a good start
Author penelopefitz Posted January 23, 2013 Author Posted January 23, 2013 I could probably do more, but I'm so afraid of coming off as clingy or annoying. I did buy him some dinner once from his favorite place to eat and surprised him with it. He loved that! I've also offered to make dinner myself, but that night he said he was too tired and couldn't. I still haven't figured out how often he wants to see me. If I had my way, I'd probably pick everyday, but I think even I would get annoyed of that. Should I just ask him how he feels? Gah, I just don't know.
miss_jaclynrae Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 How often do you guys see each other? Not enough information. You have spent the night, met the friends, did he just recently start classes back up? Why not ASK? lol I have been with my guy for not much longer than you and I can say that if I felt things were off I would just ask. DB and I do this every month, during dinner, or whenever, we will simply ask eachother... how is this relationship going? I have never done that with ANY man before and I love it. It allows us to look at how things are going, sometimes he tells me I am being a big too clingy, and it opens the doors so the things that are bothering one another are discussed as well as so we can say after even the bad things that HEY! We silllll want to be together! lol Talk it out.
Author penelopefitz Posted January 23, 2013 Author Posted January 23, 2013 Right now, we see each other about two times a week or so. He does not go to school anymore, and works full time with his dad. Maybe I will try and see if he wants to hang out tomorrow, and I will talk to him.
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