Ducklover Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 Me and my ex broke up before New Year's Eve... Since he's been texting and begging me back and I've ignored it the best I can. Sometimes I can't help myself though and reply. We have been going around in circles for 2weeks about the situation one min he hates me the next he loves me... I'm confused as hell? What is the best thing for me to do? Is it too late to start no contact?
LostOne1 Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 Best thing to do is go NC. He isn't sure of what he wants and I think you both need some space away from each other to clear your mind.
mammasita Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 I dont think its ever too late. Better late than never, right?
Author Ducklover Posted January 23, 2013 Author Posted January 23, 2013 Very true. How's he gunna figure what he wants when he's already shacked up with another girl tho....?
LostOne1 Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 Very true. How's he gunna figure what he wants when he's already shacked up with another girl tho....? because time apart will allow him to miss you IF he misses you. Otherwise he wont and he will move on. What NC is for.. is for YOU not too much for him. It's a time for you to accept it might be fully over and you need to move on. Take it from someone, who went through ALL the rookie mistakes ever. Sometimes you have to let things be... and let it go. Just tell yourself you have NO control over anything. Let it go and just let things play out and accept it's possible that this relationship is over.
mammasita Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 Very true. How's he gunna figure what he wants when he's already shacked up with another girl tho....? Even better reason to ignore him.
Author Ducklover Posted January 23, 2013 Author Posted January 23, 2013 Thank you. I will stick to no contact from now on. Wish me luck
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