BiancaLDN Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 I can't stop thinking about her, again. Why did she contact me? We'd discussed we weren't going to talk, we were going to have NO communication. She just made silly small talk, nothing was said. Now she's gone silent (I refuse to initiate contact) and have been practically hoping she'll text me all day. Why do people do stuff like this?
DrStrangelove Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 Depends on the seriousness of the relationship. Maybe she wants to see how you are doing? Maybe she wants to know if you will be in touch? I would strongly suggest no contact. The questions are endless.
Author BiancaLDN Posted January 23, 2013 Author Posted January 23, 2013 Depends on the seriousness of the relationship. Maybe she wants to see how you are doing? Maybe she wants to know if you will be in touch? I would strongly suggest no contact. The questions are endless. Pfft - a 2 month thing..very intense. Very complicated. It's just that we'd discussed we were not going to talk, then she says, "So you're not talking to me - a bit sudden, but OK" I'm confused. Confused. She could just want to see how I am, but I'm not buying that.
DrStrangelove Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 Personally, I think she is just pushing your buttons, seeing if you have enough dignity to stand by your words. Trust me, don't reply to anything for 60 days, have you read the no contact challenge? A lot of questions you have/will have might be answered in that thread - as people have gone through the same thing. P.S. - If you could reply back on my thread, would appreciate it.
Author BiancaLDN Posted January 23, 2013 Author Posted January 23, 2013 Personally, I think she is just pushing your buttons, seeing if you have enough dignity to stand by your words. Trust me, don't reply to anything for 60 days, have you read the no contact challenge? A lot of questions you have/will have might be answered in that thread - as people have gone through the same thing. P.S. - If you could reply back on my thread, would appreciate it. This is exactly what I thought it'd be. Which is your thread? I'd be happy to reply.
DrStrangelove Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 lol the one with 0 replies. It is called 3 year breakup. input greatly appreciated. kind of long, but easy to follow/read - thank you.
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