Sumo's thong Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 I'll keep this as short and sweet as possible. Basically, my girlfriend kissed another guy at a friend's wedding that I was unable to go to. Everyone there knew we were together and she still kissed this guy in front of them. I feel humiliated. We were going through a rough patch, not helped by the fact that we are currently living in different cities. She broke up with me a few days later but then phoned me and said she wanted to sort things out, so we gave it another go. Anyway, she kept quiet about it and I only found out a few weeks later when my friend told me about it. Turns out they'd exchanged numbers and they'd been texting each other for a few days after it happened before she told him that she wanted to work things out with me. I'd always said I'd dump anyone who cheated on me but it's not been that easy. I love her but can't stop thinking about what happened and feel paralysed by the whole thing. Anyway, any advice would be much appreciated. Muchas gracias
GSB81 Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 She crossed a line. Odds are it didn't work out with other guy, so she's running back to you. Things will never be the same after this. I say drop her. Sorry man.
Author Sumo's thong Posted January 23, 2013 Author Posted January 23, 2013 That's what all my friends are saying. She says she's truly sorry about it. What's bugging me is that she carried on with me and never mentioned a thing. From her behaviour, I'd never have guessed she'd done anything. It was only because my mate told me that I found out. I'd have never have known otherwise. I do believe that she's sorry but I don't know if I can trust her again. All her mates have said that I've over-reacted
Bryanp Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 The fact that she kissed him in front of everybody shows she has no respect for you whatsoever. If you do not respect yourself then who will?
Chi townD Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 I agree with Bryan. And after it happened, what did she do? She dumped you with no real excuses as to why. She left you wondering what YOU did wrong. But the fact was she was guilty and a coward and ran from you. What are you going to do the next time she does something wrong?
road Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 More then kissing went on. GF only admitted to what people saw her do. CYA. 1
MichiganMan222 Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 You love who you thought she was, not who she is. Like everyone said, she probably boned the guy, dumped you, something went wrong with her new relationship and now she wants to jump back on your ship until the right one comes along. Be a man and tell her you're done and no amount of lying will change your mind. Keep us posted. 1
loversquarrel Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 Definately more than a kiss. Think about it, they exchanged numbers, she broke up with you. How do you know for sure she's telling you the truth about breaking it off with this other guy to work things out with you? How do you know he didn't just use her and stopped talking to her? See, the problem you know have is that you can no longer take her word for it. You can't trust her, you found out from someone else.
Author Sumo's thong Posted January 23, 2013 Author Posted January 23, 2013 yeah my gut is telling me the same thing. Going to trust my instincts on this one
MichiganMan222 Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 So what happened? Did you drop the hammer on her? How did it go?
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