mammasita Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 So, I've created a couple accounts just to occupy my time. I'm far from being ready to fall in love or commit to anyone, but I see nothing wrong with meeting a man here and there for non-commital dinner and/or drinks. That said, I met someone for a drink after work. He later messaged me and asked if I would like to do something Saturday. I said yes, but I have my son because his father switched picking him up this weekend with next, so it would have to be early afternoon (my son is at an age where he can be home alone for a few hours at a time - I wasn't planning on taking him LOL). His response was: "Sweet, that is on my weekend rotation" I took that to mean his work schedule aligns with weekends my son will be with his dad, which honestly kinda creeped me out a bit. It made me feel like he was already planning the future. Am I being nit-picky or am I scorned and finding flaws where there are none ??
TouchedByViolet Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 The guy just told you his work schedule... You are finding flaws where there are none. 2
monicaelise Posted January 23, 2013 Posted January 23, 2013 Definitely sounds like you may be getting way ahead of yourself on this one. He met you, you made a decent enough impression that he wants to see you again, and it won't be too difficult to arrange with his schedule. End of story.
Author mammasita Posted January 23, 2013 Author Posted January 23, 2013 I agree with you both, thanks for the dose of reality . I probably am not even ready to be meeting people right now anyway.
Author mammasita Posted January 29, 2013 Author Posted January 29, 2013 After one meeting and one dinner, he started acting a bit questionable when it came up that I was still going to be meeting other people. Like jealous even. I didn't just outright say I was meeting others, he asked and I told the truth. I mean, did he expect me to close my account after ONE dinner with him?
StanMusial Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 It sounds like he likes you. You should be glad, but I'm catching the vibe that you don't like him that much. I would just say, don't lead him on, go ahead and break it off. Also, OLD is kind of warped from reality. You are probably getting 100x the interest he is getting on there. So that is going to affect how things play out.
Author mammasita Posted January 29, 2013 Author Posted January 29, 2013 It sounds like he likes you. You should be glad, but I'm catching the vibe that you don't like him that much. I would just say, don't lead him on, go ahead and break it off. Also, OLD is kind of warped from reality. You are probably getting 100x the interest he is getting on there. So that is going to affect how things play out. Yeah I'm not really into him like that. I know what you mean that it's warped. I tend to base my level of interest in men on line based on looks (pictures) alone where as in real life, I find myself, more often than not, sexually attracted to goofy nerds who aren't considered attractive by most.
rocketman122 Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 Yeah I'm not really into him like that. I know what you mean that it's warped. I tend to base my level of interest in men on line based on looks (pictures) alone where as in real life, I find myself, more often than not, sexually attracted to goofy nerds who aren't considered attractive by most. ooohh! youre going to have a great time meeting people who look nothing like their photos. fasten your seatbelt hahaha!
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